How do you deal with emotional baggage from a previous relationship?

I have deep scars so no one will get close to be ever again

I think you have to be single long enough that you do finally get over the last person and then you're in a position to move on and start something new.

it doesnt realli matter it realli depends becuz we people dont realli kno whos fault it is its either the guys or the girls fault well ...basically ull jux have to deal with it n no ones understand unless u lives with them

Doesnt it depend if you feel guilty?

Depends if you really did do that to her sister? or brother?

I don't get the "faithful" thing... why would you be faithful to a past someone if you had no emotional baggage from them at all!