How do you change the infactuation into a love relationship?

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Have you ever been wildy infactuated with someone? Then it never goes anywhere, and eventually the love just hangs out in limbo somewhere. When you see your love interest again, the situation has changed. What works to get it back on track?

Invite them to your house with people you know they like-more than 1x 2
Invite them to do different things with a group-with people they like 14
Text them and woo them with your charm. Then wait for them text back. 6
Show up where you know they will be. Then ignore them-more than 1x 5
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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You're spelling error is super funny!

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    12 years ago

    In fact is better than in fat any day.

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    • Ldizzy1234
      12 years ago

      Hahaha! Now that you say that, it probably is.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    Did you mean infatuation?

    This happens to me all the time...

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  • baserian
    12 years ago

    I remember back in high school a girl was infatuated with me, for some reason she was so interested in me. After a while I thought, "OK why not" and started showing her some of my interests. We did a few things together, and her infatuation soon became sincere, true love. I could look in her eyes and could tell that she'd probably do anything for me . . .

    Unfortunately this didn't last. I graduated, she had one more year to go, and when I went back for a visit I wasn't able to find her

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  • pixie_dust
    12 years ago

    unfortunately, there is no magic wand, to make this person fall into love with you. the best choice would be, none of the above. ignoring them when u are really obsessed/infatuated is not a good idea, and trying to text them and 'woo' ? doesn't sound like that would turn out either. I kind of wonder if ur going to be receptive to what you REALLY need to do, but I will try. you need to get rid of this tunnel vision, #1. #2, you need to start doing things for YOURSELF. figure out what you enjoy. not what u hate to do but think might help. start hiking, biking, learn linux, do yoga, read, anything. dwelling on this person isn't going to help at all.

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  • UliNalaMansae
    12 years ago

    im sure the infatuation fading off is when the real feeling comes in...

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