How do y'all deal with this?

I'm 22 year old girl
Never fallen in love
But fell for one guy
Told him
Got rejected

I know its common
Just wanted to share it here
Its 2am right now
And I'm crying my eyes out
I thought all the shit I've been in, nothing could be worse.
Never knew i could be this wrong.
This is what hell must feel like

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Comments ( 7 )
  • Indigo1

    rejection is never fun, but the quicker you get over it and back in the game to find love the better off you'll be . In large part it's a numbers game, try to muster up the courage to talk with and meet a lot of people that you find or think there is a potential for interest beyond friendship and I'm sure you'll find it. you just gotta take that leap and not let it get you down when someone rejects you. also remember people get rejected for all sorts of reasons that may not always or often doesn't entirely reflect the person rejected. Ive turned down a girl (politely) because i was actually more concerned about not having enough time and energy to devote to a relationship and i was in phase where i was trying to fix myself before entering into any kind of relationship. so ya , like i said ... just put keep swimming that ocean and dont hide under rocks and you'll find a good man. important to put yourself out there but also make sure the person has time to know a little bit about the person they are "rejecting or accepting" before you give them the choice too.

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  • Protagoras

    Sometimes you can tell, sometimes you're wrong, not everyone's going to be into you, you get hurt from time to time but you heal and grow stronger.

    But also, you're 22 years old, plenty of time to meet someone else.

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  • Nicole20

    It sometimes takes a while for posts to get approved for new users. Yours probably only just showed up.

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    • Yesh
      Was just too desperate for a reply

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      • Nicole20

        Well I hope you're feeling better.

        Like you said it happens but yeah it hurts.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I get over it, and move on with my life.

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  • brutus

    Its normal, happens to other ppl also. I used to feel very bad when i got rejected from job interviews :(

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