I need to know if you're a woman, so I can write libidinous things about you. Ok, seriously, you will be surprised to find out how many men would actually love being with "ugly" women. What most men call "ugly", I actually find really pretty, and I am not lying one bit. What I also noticed is that men who are very picky and selective are also insecure about their own look and tend to be less trustworthy, since they are superficial. I believe that when you question yourself things like this and feel bad about yourself, you should also investigate a bit the people you spend time with. They play a key role in defining the way you think. If they are superficial and call you ugly, you will end up considering this as well. If you hang out with people who are very confident, trustworthy and positive, you will end up feeling the same. Studies show that women who look at magazines about fashion feel sad or depressed because they get worried of their own look in comparison to the models presented there. If I were you, I would personally leave this worry aside for a while and carefully consider my habits. If these contain activities that seem to damage my own self-esteem I would eliminate them and then after a while, reconsider this issue again. If it persists and I really get in trouble finding someone to consider me attractive, then I might consider it is indeed the case I am "ugly". From the way you formulate it, you seem to have no such problems, so I strongly incline to believe you are totally out of such a bubble of "ugliness", and your problem is just in your mind.
To exemplify, in school I was listening to guys talking about girls. And most of them were so picky and gossiping about a lot of things I really found nonsensical. Then I joined a kickboxing club, and the guys there were so different. They were always talking about how attractive specific women are. I tried to make a joke in the way guys used to do at school, and they attacked me immediately like "Why are you such a pussy judging people?
Do you think you're better? There's nothing wrong with this person". From that moment I understood what a bunch of pathetic losers most dudes at school were and I spent time only with the guys from the sporting clubs I joined, forming my mentality in such a great way. Make sure you know your group well. This means more this your own physical aspect.
Love this! The models, magazine and fashion bit was 100% truth and it explains alot about how Im feeling. I now believe that the ugly is just in my head. Thanks :) You have given me hope!
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I need to know if you're a woman, so I can write libidinous things about you. Ok, seriously, you will be surprised to find out how many men would actually love being with "ugly" women. What most men call "ugly", I actually find really pretty, and I am not lying one bit. What I also noticed is that men who are very picky and selective are also insecure about their own look and tend to be less trustworthy, since they are superficial. I believe that when you question yourself things like this and feel bad about yourself, you should also investigate a bit the people you spend time with. They play a key role in defining the way you think. If they are superficial and call you ugly, you will end up considering this as well. If you hang out with people who are very confident, trustworthy and positive, you will end up feeling the same. Studies show that women who look at magazines about fashion feel sad or depressed because they get worried of their own look in comparison to the models presented there. If I were you, I would personally leave this worry aside for a while and carefully consider my habits. If these contain activities that seem to damage my own self-esteem I would eliminate them and then after a while, reconsider this issue again. If it persists and I really get in trouble finding someone to consider me attractive, then I might consider it is indeed the case I am "ugly". From the way you formulate it, you seem to have no such problems, so I strongly incline to believe you are totally out of such a bubble of "ugliness", and your problem is just in your mind.
To exemplify, in school I was listening to guys talking about girls. And most of them were so picky and gossiping about a lot of things I really found nonsensical. Then I joined a kickboxing club, and the guys there were so different. They were always talking about how attractive specific women are. I tried to make a joke in the way guys used to do at school, and they attacked me immediately like "Why are you such a pussy judging people?
Do you think you're better? There's nothing wrong with this person". From that moment I understood what a bunch of pathetic losers most dudes at school were and I spent time only with the guys from the sporting clubs I joined, forming my mentality in such a great way. Make sure you know your group well. This means more this your own physical aspect.
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Love this! The models, magazine and fashion bit was 100% truth and it explains alot about how Im feeling. I now believe that the ugly is just in my head. Thanks :) You have given me hope!