Which one? Mine? Because it was a scape goat and friends would reassure me that im a victim. I could blame the world instead of myself. In reality I was a drug addict that dropped out of school and hung out with similar people all day.
Well, regardless of from where that so called mindset came, you must not push too hard, because that's a great way bring about resentments on both sides. I honestly think you shouldn't project your issues on your child. I think things like acceptance, and moderation are key.
Thats what Ive come to realize too. If you push them too hard it will have the opposite effect. I really feel like that mindset is cancer though. I experienced it first hand.
How do I keep my son from becoming a snowflake?
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From where do you suppose that victim mindset came?
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Which one? Mine? Because it was a scape goat and friends would reassure me that im a victim. I could blame the world instead of myself. In reality I was a drug addict that dropped out of school and hung out with similar people all day.
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Well, regardless of from where that so called mindset came, you must not push too hard, because that's a great way bring about resentments on both sides. I honestly think you shouldn't project your issues on your child. I think things like acceptance, and moderation are key.
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Thats what Ive come to realize too. If you push them too hard it will have the opposite effect. I really feel like that mindset is cancer though. I experienced it first hand.
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I would say to make a point to always support, and encourage him. Try to model the behavior you want him to emulate.