How do i get over the fact that i'm really unattractive?

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I'm just unfortunate-looking. On a scale from 1 to 10, I'm probably a 3 with a funny face. I know that most people are not that attractive, but my friends just aren't unfortunate looking, they might not be an 8, a 9 or a 10, but they're average and desireable.
Yeah, I know, someone will find my beautiful, someone will love me, everyone's beautiful in their own way, yeah, but nothing will change the fact that I'm not really '' wanted '' and that I'm one of those unfortunate-looking ( and ugly ) people.
Sometimes I just wish I could have fun, be a bit stuck-up, bitchy and desired,
I'm a good girl, and I'd stay as I am if I magically woke up with a better face tomorrow, but I'd have a little fun every now and then.
I hope this makes sense to you

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  • walkingdildo
    6 years ago

    Some proper weirdos in here.

    In the real world, not everyone can be smokin' hot. I feel for you. But there is more to attraction than looks. Guys talk a lot of shit about "hot girls" but in reality, that's not who they respect. Be smart, be funny, be ambitious. Most of all, don't seek someone out or you will find someone who will try and take advantage. Put yourself first and there is bound to be someone out there who will find you attractive for being your own person, and that's far more valuable than finding you attractive because you take 2 hours to fake your eyebrows with a pencil every morning.

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  • Eminemisbae
    6 years ago

    Why would you make that conclusion.. Maybe there's someone out there wishing that they would talk to you .. Don't kill your self esteem like that.. Try new things.. Work on the basics at least have a great sense of personal hygiene, always smell nice, find fitting clothes and shoes that fit your body type, make sure your hair is flawless, you dont have to do make ups if you dont like then finally make friends.. Belong to a group you will feel more confident.. Fuck that ugly thought..and if you really feel like your that ugly maybe someone will like you jus cuz you smell nice. We all get attracted by different things.. Cheer up

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  • manifest777
    6 years ago

    Sweetie, don't fret too much about it, I know it can be hard, but i've seen some of the most incedible transformations happen with just a little more self love. Appreciate your best and worst assets, work on them. Take care of yourself, buy yourself pretty clothes, nice make-up, get a great toned foundation for your skin type, lipliner, balm, mascara, eyeliner, put yourself on a good diet of lean meats, vegetables, green tea, lots of water, embrace your feminitity, but love yourself more than that, it'll show through yourself and shine through. And take lifestyle changes, do things you want to more and you'll see the impact it has on your care for yourself. Otherwise, if you're really depressed about your looks, you can always opt for lip fillers, extensions, fake lashes to enhance your already somewhat appeal.

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    Maybe I will find you attractive hehe.

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  • bubsy
    6 years ago

    Don't get lazy and think you have no control over your body (including your face). Work out, get your bodyfat down, wear makeup and take care of your skin and hair. And read my profile description.

    Our habits shape us.

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  • JonathanOo
    6 years ago

    Don't feel so down. I'm sure you're beautiful in your own way. Personally looks aren't that important anymore when lookong for someone to be with. Personality matters so much more. Although I'm not good looking either and only 1 person has ever desired me that I know of. Just be yourself and allow others to appreciate you on what's within, not just time external you...

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    • ALXX96XX
      6 years ago

      Oh come on, that's so fake and not helpful at all.

      What does '' you're beautiful in your own way '' mean? I'm not attractive, just like some other girls aren't attractive, it's so simple. Not everyone's attractive and there's no such a thing as being beautiful in your own way when it comes to physical attraction.

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      • JonathanOo
        6 years ago

        I really do mean it a d it's not fake. Some people would call you unattractive and others may not. Even myself. You never know. A lot of times it's society or the area where you live that defines "attractive". My best friends family was from Europe and they liked women talk and broad. 6ft 200 pounds or so. And over there they DON'T SHAVE. They let their hair grow everywhere and it's considered "attractive". My point is that you are comparing yourself to your peers and it's pointless. If you want to look like them that's what makeup and plastic surgery is for. Plus Being comfortable in your own skin allows your natural beauty to show and is much more appreciated. Don't get me wrong, I get your point when you compare yourself to your peers but I bet if you posted a picture of yourself or something, 30% of people wouldn't think your ugly

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        • ALXX96XX
          6 years ago

          Lol what country was your friend's family from? Because I'm from Europe, Italia, and I can confirm that everyone shaves, even guys, many Italian guys shave their legs and arms. Also, most people here are fit, not like Americans, and hate fat people, I was bullied in school every day because I was fat.

          Beauty standards are the same in almost all countries and areas. My pretty friend is considered attractive here, and was considered attractive when we travelled to America.

          I'm considered ugly everywhere, I'm not attractive, no matter how hard I try, I'm fit, my hair is perfect etc. but I'm ugly, simple, and I need to get over it because nobody finds me attractive and if I don't get over it, I'll just get depressed about it.

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          • JonathanOo
            6 years ago

            I've never not liked a fit girl no matter how they look. Or a muscular one either. I'm living in the US so excessive tattooing is what turns me off. I'm sure obesity is a turn off here too but it must be Italy then. Maybe the guys just want only the prettiest girls and that's all. My friends are German and Czech. They don't like preppy or girly girls. They are still all for equal rights and all though. Just not the model/celebrity type of lady

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            • Angelandme
              6 years ago

              Jonathan. Get rekkkkkkt by OP for speaking your mind loooiol. Poor Jonathan, I agree with you. It's kinda sad a little though. My gf sometimes complains that she'd like for me to tell her what I liked for her to do with her body to look nice for me but I cant...
              Other people have told me things she could improve on but in my heart I can't seriously think of anything I'd like her to start doing with herself.

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  • yasss
    6 years ago

    I feel you, I'm probably like a -1, haha

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  • BlackCatsAreAwesome
    6 years ago

    Can I see your face?

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  • Jimbo24
    6 years ago

    So you think about becoming more attractive, and your immediate wish after that is to be stuck-up and bitchy wtf?

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    Wear a mask in front of the mirror and other people.

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