How do i get into the adult industry?

So, I am very bad at marketing but I am fantastic as sales. Which are two very different things. For example I can make a billboard for a company, make a store look pretty, and set up a fantastic website. Everything is beautiful to look out, I can even talk up a product to a customer. What I am terrible at is getting traffic. A beautiful looking website and 0 traffic. So I been trying to get into the industry. I was thinking maybe foot modeling or a sugar daddy but it seems this is harder than I believed it would be. How do I find someone to help me get into the industry?

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  • Jamie_Sulky

    just get an only fans. Lowkey best way to get into the industry because you are your own boss, and you can decide what kind of content you want. Under a big company you might be pushed to do shit you might not vibe with.

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  • Str8racers

    You could go two ways amateur or "pro". Amateur doesnt mean you arent making money. For example Lindsey Love makes a shit ton of money she just makes home videos on pornhub. Once you get a following you can do webcam modeling. It can pay very well. Or you could do some research and find out whos the best manager in the porn industry and contact him and send him pictures.

    Doing porn is hard work. Its not nearly as easy as you'd think.

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  • olderdude-xx

    There are many different variations of "Adult" entertainment and services.

    It all comes down to what is it that you are interested in doing, and how far are you willing to go (not just sexually, but alcohol and drug use as that will determine your potential client range).

    Modeling is highly competitive and initially does not pay well at all. I've talked with many who spent far more on taking care of themselves, makeup, and training than they ever get paid. Its the very rare exception that can somehow bypass all of that.

    The base play on Sugar Daddy sites is "a good time" for money and fun dates; which almost always includes sex. It's not for everyone, and there are a lot of potential downfalls.

    Please see a fairly recent post: "What are your thoughts on sugardaddy/mamma and sugarbaby relationships?" from a few days ago on why I know this - and some of the other things I'm going to tell you.

    https://www.isitnormal.com/post/what-are-your-thoughts-on-sugardaddy-mamma-and-sugarbaby-relationships--299681#comment-3051603

    A lot of people get into this industry by "dancing" at facilities or topless bars/etc.

    While it pays to have some dance skills - its more about your attitude and people skills (and knowing why someone gets hundreds for "service" and others only get twenty - fifty for the same "service", and why people get bigger tips).

    About half the dancers I have met are very strict about no physical contact and only make money in the facility. Typical take-home for someone starting out is $75-$125 per night (you have to pay for your time slots on stage). Now some nights you make almost nothing, and on other nights you double that. You need to improve your seductive dance/talk skill and your people skills to increase those amounts.

    The other half of dancers often earn a lot more after the facility closes by setting private dates with people they meet while dancing. These ladies usually make more money with private "entertainment & Services" than they do in the dance facilities - and use dancing to find long term clients. Its quite common for them to make more "on their way home" than they make in a night dancing, not to mention other appointments they may set up for following days.

    Almost all of these kinds of venues have "Amateur nights" where you can try it out. One note: The other dancers will view you as competition, and they can be nasty - and some will even do their best to sabotage you and your outfit. The better venues control this and make amateurs welcome with support. But, not all do that.

    Another route is to become an escort - which usually involves being a good tour guide of your area attractions and being able to be an "arm companion" for someone going to an event at a local charity, sports event, going with them to the Ballet, and other things. The ones who are intelligent; learn about their community, sports, and the arts; and can dress for any occasion (hiking to going to the Ballet) make the most $. Sex is not always required as part of being an escort - and the higher priced ones are selective and may chose to provide that if their event partner is a decent person that treated them well.

    For any private meetings for various things (not in a facility or public place) - think about your safety and have a small emergency purse that you can just grab and run with if you have to (without having to dress). One lady I know had a very small mace canister, a pair of panties, a very thin colored plastic raincoat, and sufficient cash to get food and a taxi, etc. and a very cheap tracfone (in case seh had to get out so fast that she could not grab her normal phone), to get out of there if she had to flee with just that purse (she told me that she had never used it: but knew ladies who had - and many others who wish they had such a purse in the past and were beaten, raped, or robbed because of not having it and being ready to flee). She told me she always placed it in an obvious location near the door out.

    Now its up to you to decide if you really want to pursue that option: is doing "adult" entertainment or services really what you want to do in life - is it your passion? Or is it just the quickest & easiest way to get money at this time?

    I can assure you that there are other ways to earn money that are likely more safer and would most likely build your self-esteem better.

    I assist people to do better in life. While I cannot say what kind of opportunities you really have in life as I have not met you and discussed your dreams, goals, or assessed your abilities. I can tell you that you likely have at least a half dozen other options that will let you earn more money in the end. I mainly work with people in my local area (eastern Wisconsin); but, am always willing to talk to anyone. PM me if interested.

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    • Btw no one can pm you if you do not have gold

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      • olderdude-xx

        People who really want to contact me figure things out.

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        • So what is your number than?

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          • olderdude-xx

            It would be highly inappropriate for me to post my personal contact information on this site. I don't want to deal with all the scam contacts.

            If you don't want to use the IIN PM system, and are truly interested in the SD/SB sites then do a wide search on SD sites (I think there are about 50 of them) and look for one that is well.. established.

            I do live in eastern Wisconsin (that's on my profile here) and my SD profile is unique - and is set up to instantly identify most scammers as someone has to read the profile to be able to actually contact me.

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            • Yet, you have no way of contacting you. Thats interesting. I was trying to aviod methods that is going to cost me a lot of upfront fees as right now I do not have a lot of money. Every dating website seems to require a monthly fee. So I was looking for ways around this.

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    • I really do not care about self esteem. This is purely survival until I can start class next semester. After I get a two year in accounting ill apply to be a bookkeeper. I am someone who had everyone against me including my parents from day one. I raised my family and they made sure to take any chance at a future I had. After which I was kicked out at 19 and been hopping between temp jobs for awhile. Finally managed find something permement, so I can go to college without worrying about being in the streets in the next month. I always liked easy cash though and am a good business man. In fact my current occupation is working a shop and my bosses love me becuase customers adore me. I am charming, polite, charismatic and accommodating. I also ran a shop on my own before. I also have been selling things online and love being able to make a easy 500 in not even 10 minutes. I use to sell candy in HS and waz making money. So no one gives a shit about self esteem. The world doesn't work on fuzzy feelings. Also I am very limited on options right now because of funds, and limited resources. So this would be a quick ticket. Like mentioned foot model and sugardaddy deal would work best for my purposes. Did consider prostitution but like I said bad at marketing and well corona has made finding gatherings hard.

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      • olderdude-xx

        OK: Survival mode. I understand. If you've read the other recent post I mentioned; then be assured that I have assisted ladies like you typically withing 100 miles of where I live (but occasionally anywhere in the USA or Canada).

        I believe that you likely have other long term options that are better.

        You may do well on a Sugar Daddy site... or you may not. Depends on your picture(s)/lack of them, what your profile says, and what you are looking for and will accept in return. Note: my experience talking to SB's is that those with standards tend to make more $$$ in the end. However, they may not start out well - and many ladies tell me that I was the only real person they met on the site - that there is too much competition for the available men (some sites are better than others).

        Do some internet searches on various sugar daddy sites and which ones have better responses (some people register on more than one site at once).

        Note that there are other just "help" sites where you can post your situation and ask for financial - or other - assistance. Those are low success rates (lots of misses for every hit); but, you might do OK there as well.

        Be careful: I advise against using your actual name (I use my middle name), I suggest getting a separate email account and phone number just for the site (either google or other). I don't use google - but have a special email address I use and have a $29 tracfone so I can easily text and send pictures (and they don't see my real phone until I want them to see it).

        I suggest that you read a lot of profiles as well; and focus on people local to you (the ones that are states away from you are most likely scammers).

        I suggest that you do all initial meetings in a public place.

        Never - and I mean Never: provide your banking or credit/debit card information and login information to someone (there is no need for an honest person to ever need that). Be extremely wary of personal checks too. It will most likely bounce. Gift cards can be OK if you verify the amount on the card and that its activated (best is if you watch them purchase it and know what the amount is). Unfortunately, there are a lot of male scammers too - and some people like promising you the world and getting your companionship and support for an evening - only to let you find out later that what they gave you had no or minimal actual value.

        I wish you well with this, You can use this to leverage into something better, if you so choose.

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