If your feelings are unrequited then your experience of the "connection" might not be as accurate as you think, i.e. you might have been seeing what you want to see. A lot of that could be because you find her very attractive and skews your perspective of her. In reality, we all have flaws and love is when you both show each other your flaws and either accept them or work through them together. My two cents, you need to end the friendship and untrain your brain of its obsession with her. Reflecting on both of your actions in the friendship and how that contributed to where you are now, which is in a place of understandable hurt, is going to help you find a healthy loving relationship in the future. You seem like you have a lot of love to give and that means that you deserve it in return.
Amen!!!!! Please take a break my friend. My bsf used to have a crush on me and he acted like he didnt, then it built up to him having tantrums when i like someone else. Take a break pls!
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If your feelings are unrequited then your experience of the "connection" might not be as accurate as you think, i.e. you might have been seeing what you want to see. A lot of that could be because you find her very attractive and skews your perspective of her. In reality, we all have flaws and love is when you both show each other your flaws and either accept them or work through them together. My two cents, you need to end the friendship and untrain your brain of its obsession with her. Reflecting on both of your actions in the friendship and how that contributed to where you are now, which is in a place of understandable hurt, is going to help you find a healthy loving relationship in the future. You seem like you have a lot of love to give and that means that you deserve it in return.
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Amen!!!!! Please take a break my friend. My bsf used to have a crush on me and he acted like he didnt, then it built up to him having tantrums when i like someone else. Take a break pls!