How do i ask a guy to fuck me without sounding like a lut

i need genuine advice , i dont wanna sound like a slut

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  • nikkiclaire

    Just play with his belt while you guys are kissing. He will know what that means.

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  • leggs91200

    Drop your drawers and grab your ankles while your back is facing him. He will get the message.

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  • Slowlymovingfast

    Lucky for you we live in 2018, a wonderful time when women are allowed to have human desires.

    Just ask.

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  • JellyBeanBandit

    There's nothing wrong with a girl wanting to have sex. It's not normal to put them down for a completely natural and harmless desire. So don't worry about sounding like a "slut".

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  • Scytsoparonoid

    He probably wants to put it in you just as bad as you want it in you. It's not about being slutty express yourself show him what he is missing.

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  • momwatcher69

    Lotsa foreplay & flirting. If he doesn't pick up, on that, find a different guy.

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  • Biman458

    Just ask him. I have had a couple of women ask me. Most hint about it. I asked one who had been hinting heavily. I said can I ask you some to see if I am reading you wrong, she said yes. I said you want to fuck need don't you. The answer was yes, and yes we did fuck lol

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  • A-sharp

    Go out with him. have a few drinks play drunk and let him do what ever he wants. No need to ask.

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  • CDmale4fem

    Just be honest. Tell him it's been a couple years since you have had sex with your former lesbian lover and you are wanting to see if he can fuck the lesbian out of you. Most guys have that ego thing going and up for a challenge.

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    • im not a lesbian ew

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      • dogwoofwoof

        fag

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      • CDmale4fem

        I was kidding about the lesbian part. It would give the guy a challenge. Most guys when it comes to sex stuff their ego is so far in the clouds, they should contact the local airport to avoid air traffic. Well, so you didn't get my point. Sorry about that.

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  • Slut shaming is absolute nonsense--don't buy into that crap!! Women desire/deserve pleasure too. Such ridiculously outmoded double standards cause so much harm to our society!

    No one need apologize for wanting great consensual sex. In fact, chances are you won't consistently have great sex until you learn to ask for what you want. What you really, really want. (Spice Girls 4evah! ;) There are plenty of men who appreciate a woman confident and direct enough to say aloud, "Hey, ya wanna fuck?"

    Men who throw shade at (hate) women, for being "slutty" confuse the hell out of me. What sort of twisted reasoning is this that they'd throw away the key to what they desire most, which is most often to fuck, Fuck, FUCK?! Just sayin'.

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  • mm6969

    Tell him to teach you. Don't ask a virgin or anyone from school

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  • RoseIsabella

    I saw a girl straight out tell this dude in a bar that she wanted to bang him, and it was hella weird, because she was kinda hot, but really wasted, and he was sorta mean to her.

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  • Ellenna

    Personally I wouldn't be asking anyone to fuck me (except when already in a relationship) in those words: wouldn't it be more accurate to phrase it as something like "You really turn me on" or "I'm really attracted to you" and see what happens.

    On the other hand, if you did want to just say you want to be fucked and he saw that as slutty would you want to be involved with him?

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  • Firsttaste

    You could bring up the subject of porn and tell him you have sexual fantasies about him having sex with you. If he doesn't sound into that with you he might not be interested in sex with any woman. Just my opinion. Good luck, Keep us posted.

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