How common do you think straight men having same sex relations is?

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This is men who identify as straight, this does not mean they are 100% attracted to women nor that they haven't had a same sex experience.

This is at any point in their adult life so 18+, this is not exclusive to penatritive sex and includes 1 time experiences.

Sexuality is confusing so I do not believe being straight identifying means you will never have a same sex experience or either the opposite sex for a gay identifying man.

Uncommon (0-15%) 4
A little common (16-30%) 1
Common (31-50%) 2
Very common (51-75%) 3
Extremely common (76% +) 4
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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Why in the world would you think a straight guy outside of prison would have 'same sex relations'? A straight guy is not attracted to males, by definition. He is not going to have gay sex voluntarily.
    Perhaps your question would work better if you just asked how many guys are bi or gay?

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    • tRUTH007
      8 years ago

      I believe that perhaps lots of men identify as straight but that does not mean they haven't had same sex relations of some sort in their life, it could be with just 1 guy once, a drunken thing, a curiosity thing. Many men may be a little attracted some men on rare occasion or in certain moods, sexuality isn't as simple as straight gay or bi but most people identify based on what they mostly find attractive.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    Meaningless question: at the time they're having sex with another male, they're not straight are they?

    Who cares anyway and what is the point of these labels?

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    • tRUTH007
      8 years ago

      If a straight woman has 1 sexual experience with another does that make her bisexual? If a man is 95% attracted to women but 5% attracted to men does that make him bi? If a man has always been attracted to men but happens to find 1 girl attractive some day, does that make him bi? No the labels aren't all that important, I believe there's a scale of how much attracted to either gender you are, this could fluctuate during your life based on many a things. So is it completely unplausable that some straight identifying men have had same sex relations atleast once?

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago

        Of course there's a continuum and I've moved along it in both directions at different times. However, if you read my post properly, I'm pointing out that it doesn't matter what anyone "identifies" as, if at any given time h/she is having or wanting sex with the same gender, AT THAT TIME the person is NOT straight.

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        • tRUTH007
          8 years ago

          I agree with you about the whole labels part, but you see where I'm coming from? Say just your average friend or colleague who would say they're straight if you asked but still may have had same sex relations at some point whether it was in college or whatever? I know it doesn't really matter it's just a fun question out of pure curiosity.

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          • Ellenna
            8 years ago

            Are you curious because this applies to you?

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            • tRUTH007
              8 years ago

              No I'm very much a gay man, I'm just curious becuase it's not something many straight men are likely to admit to even if they had, this is something I was talking about with my friends so I wanted to know what others thought...kind of failed though!

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  • anti-hero
    8 years ago

    Zero, straight men only have sex with women.

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  • Unimportant
    8 years ago

    I think, if you experiment with other men, you per definitionem are not - cannot be - heterosexual.

    The only time a heterosexual man can have sex with other men is if it is being done against his will.

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