I know, but I don't think it's wrong to think about him as long as you don't have expectations that you know you can't have, but,, thinking about it or being nice to him I don't htink it's wrong.
Na that's not wrong to think about him :) but like you said it's just trying to control those thoughts really...I became so wrapped up in thinking about him that I forgot he was with someone...then I saw a Christmas card with his and her name on it, it broke my heart again...I'd been living in my head too much so trying some distraction techniques now :)
aww I know, I also saw a picture of them on Christmas celebrating and I felt so bad. If you found something to distract you pls tell me, I dn't want to be suffering for something not worth it.
At the moment I've been looking at boys trying to make eye contact with a good looking guy (hopefully single). Sort of worked yesterday and I got a smile back, but my mum was with me so quickly looked away HA! Still wanna be with him...but figured if I could at least find someone who I could be with in the flesh and get a nice smile off of it would help steer me in the right direction
Yes, that's a nice start. Usually when a guy smiles I'm very shy and sometimes I even try not to SEE that person again, that's rude, but it¿s because I don't know how to 'flirt', really, I don't. I will take that for me too and I will start doing that kind of things. Best wishes.
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I know, but I don't think it's wrong to think about him as long as you don't have expectations that you know you can't have, but,, thinking about it or being nice to him I don't htink it's wrong.
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Na that's not wrong to think about him :) but like you said it's just trying to control those thoughts really...I became so wrapped up in thinking about him that I forgot he was with someone...then I saw a Christmas card with his and her name on it, it broke my heart again...I'd been living in my head too much so trying some distraction techniques now :)
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aww I know, I also saw a picture of them on Christmas celebrating and I felt so bad. If you found something to distract you pls tell me, I dn't want to be suffering for something not worth it.
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At the moment I've been looking at boys trying to make eye contact with a good looking guy (hopefully single). Sort of worked yesterday and I got a smile back, but my mum was with me so quickly looked away HA! Still wanna be with him...but figured if I could at least find someone who I could be with in the flesh and get a nice smile off of it would help steer me in the right direction
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Yes, that's a nice start. Usually when a guy smiles I'm very shy and sometimes I even try not to SEE that person again, that's rude, but it¿s because I don't know how to 'flirt', really, I don't. I will take that for me too and I will start doing that kind of things. Best wishes.