Ummmmm, being or not being in love is not something you can decide, but also I think that even if your falling in love with someone your life doesn't need to turn around that same person. I mean that guy is not available if you keep focusing on him and your love for him you're in for some trouble, the best cure in those situation is meeting new people , expanding your horizon, when you do that well they'll be lots more of nice and flirty guy and your friend might not seem that special anymore. Well that's the best case scenario , if that don't seem to happen and this just drag out to much ( you staying in love for more then a year and always focusing on that same guy) try confessing to him, he might say yes ,he might say no but this might give you some closure if he says no (like killing any prospect of a relationship thus killing your love at the same time, ya its like hitting a wall but it'll help ya turn the page but before confessing tell a gilfriend of yours that your planning to do so atleast you'll have a shoulder to cry on) , and if he says yes great for ya , as long as he properly break up!
You ar right but, If I meet someone then it's fine, I'm not going to give him the 100% of my time, if I meet someone who is avaliable, which I wish, it will be perfect, but for now I just like him, so much... I didn't tell him directly but he knows it, and he hasn't said anything... I trid to tll a friend but he just changed the topic so... I don't know if he's going to break up, I really don't think so...
Do you have lots of opportunities to meet new people? If you don't you have to create them ! If you're still an university student go join a club or something, if you work go to work events, you can also go to clubs with friends and meet their friends. If a guy other then the guy you like flirts with you flirt with him also.
Yes, I will try that. I don't meet people frequently, and since I almost always go out with my roomate, which is a guy, well people (guys) may think I'm alrady taken, it's frustrating, I would like to have more girl friends.... I will try to look... Thank you for the advice:)
I plan to do that, but it is a little difficult. My roomate is a guy so I don't think I can go out to those places and seem avaliable. I will try to meet more girl friends. I work now. Thank you so much.
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Ummmmm, being or not being in love is not something you can decide, but also I think that even if your falling in love with someone your life doesn't need to turn around that same person. I mean that guy is not available if you keep focusing on him and your love for him you're in for some trouble, the best cure in those situation is meeting new people , expanding your horizon, when you do that well they'll be lots more of nice and flirty guy and your friend might not seem that special anymore. Well that's the best case scenario , if that don't seem to happen and this just drag out to much ( you staying in love for more then a year and always focusing on that same guy) try confessing to him, he might say yes ,he might say no but this might give you some closure if he says no (like killing any prospect of a relationship thus killing your love at the same time, ya its like hitting a wall but it'll help ya turn the page but before confessing tell a gilfriend of yours that your planning to do so atleast you'll have a shoulder to cry on) , and if he says yes great for ya , as long as he properly break up!
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You ar right but, If I meet someone then it's fine, I'm not going to give him the 100% of my time, if I meet someone who is avaliable, which I wish, it will be perfect, but for now I just like him, so much... I didn't tell him directly but he knows it, and he hasn't said anything... I trid to tll a friend but he just changed the topic so... I don't know if he's going to break up, I really don't think so...
Thank you so much!
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Do you have lots of opportunities to meet new people? If you don't you have to create them ! If you're still an university student go join a club or something, if you work go to work events, you can also go to clubs with friends and meet their friends. If a guy other then the guy you like flirts with you flirt with him also.
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Yes, I will try that. I don't meet people frequently, and since I almost always go out with my roomate, which is a guy, well people (guys) may think I'm alrady taken, it's frustrating, I would like to have more girl friends.... I will try to look... Thank you for the advice:)
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You don't have much girlfriends?I would have thought the contrary that you didn't have much guy friends? and no probs for the advice!
I plan to do that, but it is a little difficult. My roomate is a guy so I don't think I can go out to those places and seem avaliable. I will try to meet more girl friends. I work now. Thank you so much.