How can i make sex comfortable for my virgin gf?

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I don't want her to remember her first time as painful. I'm even going to bring lubrication for her but I really want this to be a good experience for her. We have been talking about it for awhile now and it's all good with her but I know she's scared. I want her to feel comfortable with it and know it's ok. She has a low self esteem especially about her breasts and yes she's Asian so this is kinda hard for her to get past having small breasts but I always tell her they are big to make her feel good. I try my best to be a good bf and I get her all the things she wants we are even engaged. I love her so much and this is not just me trying to get laid I want to have sex out of pure love and intimacy to bring us closer. No jokes please I just want to make her feel good with this. I'm going to be very slow and gentle and try not to hurt her. Please give me some tips on how to make it even better.

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  • ThisIsImpossible
    9 years ago

    You're asking the wrong part of the internet.

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  • OtherSide
    9 years ago

    That's the most helpful comment I've ever seen on IIN.

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    • Satanic_Cereal
      9 years ago

      Thanks

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  • FireFlower
    9 years ago

    Most first times are painful

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    • RoseIsabella
      9 years ago

      Mine wasn't, thank God!

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  • amazon
    9 years ago

    If you're already engaged, why not just wait 'til you're married? That would make it special. It's rare to be a virgin on your wedding day.

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  • Shackleford96
    9 years ago

    You sound like you have it pretty well figured out. Maybe have some pleasant music playing in the background...

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  • shuggy-chan
    9 years ago

    i said what what , in the butt

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  • theorangejulian
    9 years ago

    Down some viargra so you can kick it up to 4 inches!

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  • ILI1440
    9 years ago

    Aw, I remember my first time I was also scared. Definitley go slow, and don't be rough, kiss her while it starts to happen, it will take away from any pain. If she really wants to do it, in all honesty you shouldnt need lube, she should be wet enough to take you. Try getting her turned on before the sex even happens, and if shes still not wet, use the lube. Cuddle with her after, and make sure she is okay. This is big, don't walk out or leave because then she starts thinking, use protection be safe, have fun!

    Good luck.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    The more foreplay the better!
    ;-)

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  • [email protected]
    9 years ago

    tell her to take deep breath, while having sex with you. let her imagine the fantasy world. foreplay is very important.

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  • Concerned3rdparty
    9 years ago

    stop fucking around and fucking kick in her front door

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