That is one tough situation you have no doubt.
My first reaction (knowing very little about your entire situation) is that I would try to move. Perhaps not far, but far enough that it would be difficult for her to see your child. When you visit town you can supervise their situation a bit better because you will have the excuse that you have to leave town. If they come, same situation.... I know it may not be idea but... you know.
On another note, it is completely reasonable for you to not allow her in that environment. No judge (which he won't go there anyway bc $$) is going to say that is unreasonable... no way. You don't need to say anything to her just make excuses to him and if he starts a fuss then I would just tell him how it is (not going to let our child around a prostitution/drug environment or she will start to think this is normal and that is not what anyone wants) You are her mother and you have to look out for what is best, even if your daughter screams at you for not letting her see daddy - nothing worth fighting for is easy. - don't talk to the whore/addict, she has nothing to do with this.
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That is one tough situation you have no doubt.
My first reaction (knowing very little about your entire situation) is that I would try to move. Perhaps not far, but far enough that it would be difficult for her to see your child. When you visit town you can supervise their situation a bit better because you will have the excuse that you have to leave town. If they come, same situation.... I know it may not be idea but... you know.
On another note, it is completely reasonable for you to not allow her in that environment. No judge (which he won't go there anyway bc $$) is going to say that is unreasonable... no way. You don't need to say anything to her just make excuses to him and if he starts a fuss then I would just tell him how it is (not going to let our child around a prostitution/drug environment or she will start to think this is normal and that is not what anyone wants) You are her mother and you have to look out for what is best, even if your daughter screams at you for not letting her see daddy - nothing worth fighting for is easy. - don't talk to the whore/addict, she has nothing to do with this.