I think you need to understand that whilst you know why he is so focused at work you have your needs as well, you don´t sound as awful as I am and demand a lot of attention either.
It´s good that he is focused at his work, BUT it should also be in his interest to make YOU feel loved and appreciated otherwise he should be single if he can not pay attention to you.
How often is he in touch? And what would you want from him that he is not giving you at the moment?
Exactly I feel like he doesn't know what he wants. He wants me but he knows he doesn't want the responsibility of a relationship because he can't afford to be a full-time bf. Its not fair. In the beginning, when we weren't official, we stopped talking cause we figured it wasnt gonna work out then hes the one to chase me and treat me like a gf like oh okay maybe this time hell come around. I can't believe that after all this time that we have improved, he still has these bad habits like forgetting all about me and just work work work. If he wants me, he needs to learn that he just can't have me, he needs to work for it and thats by telling me in words that everything is okay or check up on me, ask genuinely how Im doing, also show me you care by doing nice gestures. When we hang out which is like every two weeks, we just hang out and its beginning to urk me because its time for him to really show me how much I mean to him so he should plan something like "lets go do_____ in September" but no. I usually like just hanging out with him like movies and eat out but now that this is starting to concern me, I figure he needs to make it up to me. SHOW me I put in value to your life. Or when he is about to go do something fun like with family, invite me, don't just leave me behind. I think it is time to let me hang out with his family. I don't see a reason why not. Its not too soon and I havent done anything wrong to him so freaken include me in your life.
How am I supposed to deal with a workaholic bf?
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I think you need to understand that whilst you know why he is so focused at work you have your needs as well, you don´t sound as awful as I am and demand a lot of attention either.
It´s good that he is focused at his work, BUT it should also be in his interest to make YOU feel loved and appreciated otherwise he should be single if he can not pay attention to you.
How often is he in touch? And what would you want from him that he is not giving you at the moment?
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Exactly I feel like he doesn't know what he wants. He wants me but he knows he doesn't want the responsibility of a relationship because he can't afford to be a full-time bf. Its not fair. In the beginning, when we weren't official, we stopped talking cause we figured it wasnt gonna work out then hes the one to chase me and treat me like a gf like oh okay maybe this time hell come around. I can't believe that after all this time that we have improved, he still has these bad habits like forgetting all about me and just work work work. If he wants me, he needs to learn that he just can't have me, he needs to work for it and thats by telling me in words that everything is okay or check up on me, ask genuinely how Im doing, also show me you care by doing nice gestures. When we hang out which is like every two weeks, we just hang out and its beginning to urk me because its time for him to really show me how much I mean to him so he should plan something like "lets go do_____ in September" but no. I usually like just hanging out with him like movies and eat out but now that this is starting to concern me, I figure he needs to make it up to me. SHOW me I put in value to your life. Or when he is about to go do something fun like with family, invite me, don't just leave me behind. I think it is time to let me hang out with his family. I don't see a reason why not. Its not too soon and I havent done anything wrong to him so freaken include me in your life.
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I think there seem to be a lot of red flags here :/
He wont let you meet his family.
He forgets about you, I mean who does that? :/
He seems yo have stopped trying now that he feels like he have you.