Hot women are intimidating

I was walking around this corner at the gym the other day and I saw this girl walking on the treadmill had on some really cool shoes so as I walk past her I said "hey those shoes are cool". She takes out her headphone and turns and looks at me and says "what?" I was caught off guard because she was a super hot latin chic and hot latina girls never live in my town. I dont want to sound like a simp but I rate her 10,000 out of 10. Literally the hottest girl I've ever seen in my life not exaturating. I did not expect her to look like that when I made the shoe comment. I said "yeah...uhh your shoes are cool...." and awkwardly walk away. I went to go pickup something and my hand was shaking. And I feel like less of a man because this woman intimidated me so badly. I felt like I had a mild panic attack over it.

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  • It's just appearance lol. I don't understand why people are intimidated by someone's face or body.

    When I was more fit I noticed many men didn't talk to me as much, one guy even said he was afraid to ask me out because he didn't want to be rejected, now being less fit they talk to me more and don't seem intimidated much but I'm the same exact person lol. Looks are meaningless.

    I'm getting more fit now though so I expect the strange shift in how people approach me again soon 😑. Sure it's nice to look good but no one should feel intimidated by looks.

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    • Shoot that must be nice, im more on the fit side of yhings and guys in my area seem to think that makes me a slut or something. It's ridiculous

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  • She only said “what?” ??

    You never know sometimes. That’s why I also encourage my friends to just try. What’s the worst that could happen? She says she isn’t interested. That’s fine, there are plenty of other women out there. But at least you tried and at least you know. Don’t ever avoid taking a chance because you’re always going to wonder “what if?” I always go after girls, even if they’re out of my league because sooner or later, one will be attracted to you, maybe not for looks, but just because you had the balls to approach her. Women like confidence. That’s why you see a lot of beautiful women with average looking guys. Sometimes the most beautiful girls are single and are just waiting for that guy to suck it up and find his courage to ask her out.

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    • No she said thanks when I told her

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  • They can be intimidating if they're out of your league.

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  • No s***? That's what they want to be. They're so used to being catered to by the whole world they feel entitled to be b****es. Get used to it.

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  • she probably got scared, don't take it personally

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    • I dint think she really did anything wrong or seemed scared. I made it sound like that she just didnt hear me. She said thanks.

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  • I disagree.

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  • Confidence is key.

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  • I can empathize with her. It's annoying interacting with nervous people who don't even know you.

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  • I love it when a girl makes me feel like that.

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  • Actually, while a lot of hot girls bring nothing to the table apart from their bodies and will expect a guy to pay for everything, many of them will actually be flattered to be approached because so many guys feel like you do.

    They have this deep, visceral desire for guys to at least try to shoot their shot. Just the simple fact that a guy is willing to give a hot girl the power to accept or reject them gives these types of women all the validation they need.

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