In our situation we have plenty to lose. It's just not considered acceptable in the society we live in, and our family is very important to the both of us. Long ago we accepted this was the case.
A lot of things are not considered acceptable by society, doesn't mean that you should kill your own happiness to appease an anonymous society bent on judging and punishing people.
As I was saying if you two can keep it a secret, no one will have to know and therefore there won't be any consequences.
Plus you won't have to worry about pregnancy either-which is a serious concern with male/female unions.
You're not hurting anyone but loving someone who loves you. Society is still barbaric-so until people become more civilized and open-minded just have your fun but keep it only between yourselves.
I've had a lot of crushes on a lot of people. Some are worth pursuing, others aren't. It just isn't a good idea, and there are plenty more proverbial fish in the sea.
HONESTLY, Are you/have you been attracted to a member of your family?
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why not pursue it, you got nothing to lose as long as you keep it between you and him.
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In our situation we have plenty to lose. It's just not considered acceptable in the society we live in, and our family is very important to the both of us. Long ago we accepted this was the case.
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A lot of things are not considered acceptable by society, doesn't mean that you should kill your own happiness to appease an anonymous society bent on judging and punishing people.
As I was saying if you two can keep it a secret, no one will have to know and therefore there won't be any consequences.
Plus you won't have to worry about pregnancy either-which is a serious concern with male/female unions.
You're not hurting anyone but loving someone who loves you. Society is still barbaric-so until people become more civilized and open-minded just have your fun but keep it only between yourselves.
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What it really comes down to is...
I've had a lot of crushes on a lot of people. Some are worth pursuing, others aren't. It just isn't a good idea, and there are plenty more proverbial fish in the sea.
Risk vs. Reward, and all that.
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I was about to say 'to each his/her own', but I can honestly relate to your situation.
In my case it's similar with the risk/reward ratio. This is why I've been reluctant.
As much as I'd love to be with her and she wants to be with me-we really can't at this time.