Homosexual fantasies

Is it normal to have homosexual thoughts, but consider yourself straight. Lately I have had a lot of homosexual fantasies usually involving giving oral sex to another male. This thought gets stuck in my head but I'm never sexually aroused by it. I still masturbate to porn that is not homosexual and get erections from it. I never am really physically attracted to other males whatsoever and can never see myself with a man. However, I am very attracted to women. I've had several past relationships with women, but I am still confused about my sexuality.

Is It Normal?
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  • It's completely normal. You can either keep those thoughts or phantasies at bay, or you can experiment. I am deffinently a ladies man too, so I know what you mean. I have experimented with oral sex on men and found that when I followed through with it I had a good experience. But then other times I was completely turned off by it and did not enjoy it. But you are very normal, the only thing not normal is that most people don't talk about those feelings, which is why this website is a great place to voice these kinds of things. And don't feel ashamed of having those desires. It's no big deal at all.

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  • Very normal, even if you don’t act on them. It still can be exciting.

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