Homosexual behavior and morality
Do you feel guilt, shame, or remorse due to homosexual thoughts/behavior?
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Do you feel guilt, shame, or remorse due to homosexual thoughts/behavior?
I'm not homosexual, so I didn't vote, but I guess I would only feel guilty about such a normal thing for one reason: because of what other people may think it's "normal" or not.
I've felt guilty for watching yaoi because my boyfriend said it is disgusting and sick. It made me feel like shit, honestly, and I felt guilty, like I was doing something very wrong. But how can I be an awful person for doing something simple as that? Am I hurting someone? Nope, I'm just not a closed minded person and that's all.
Although, I've seen some very sad comments around the internet about homosexuallity, so basically I belive it would be difficult to ignore them and feel good in my skin.
If I were gay, I wouldn't be ashamed of it. I'd be quite casual about it. It would be exactly the same as if I were straight. There wouldn't be any coming out, I would just meet a girl instead of a guy and my friends and family would either approve of my relationship or not. If they didn't approve, I would ask their reason. If their reason sucked, they could go fuck themselves. People would only know about my gayness the same way they know about my straightness, which would be if I had a particular interest or person to bring up.
I would love myself for who I am. It's okay to love yourself, OP.
I agree. It's a secret I want to keep from friends and family, but among strangers and others who don't know me I don't feel guilty. It's become pretty common and accepted, and especially among others in that lifestyle I don't feel the least bit guilty. I feel a sense of commaraderie!