Hitting on girls

I can't belevie how guys treat girls these day's. There is this one girl at my school that is really nice to everyone, and everyone likes her( so do i but i don't have a chance with her.)she has been going out with this guy for a few years. lately i have seen this guy hitting her! I just can't beleive it! this guy does drugs and he drinks,and she knows it , but doesn't care. I would never do this to a girl. but he is cool, smart, and he's built. the only reason she does this is to get up to the cooler girls. I, myself would do anything to have a girl friend like that and he treats her like dirt.I'm not the best looking guy ,but im built better than him and im way smarter than him.but the down fall is that im not cool I'm really shy,( and i have no experience with girls) this just goes to show that guys take some of the best things i could ever have and just throw them away like trash. i can't stand it.

I would do anything for a girl like her.

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  • KimmyKhaosXD

    If your more built than him, then kick his ass.
    stand up for her, and she will be awe struck on what you did and will wanna talk to you. fuck that guy up!

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  • angelkanarias

    next time kick his ass, seriously. you'll help her and maybe have a new nice gf.

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  • TheGuyOverThere

    I taught this was about hitting girls :D

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  • Jan

    There are a lot of girls who want a guy like you, not ALL of us are attracted to bad boys.

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  • feelinglikeroadkill

    I think that girl is stupid to let that guy treat her like that, when I was in school I was one of the prettiest girls and now that I am 25 looking back, I dont care how hot or popular a guy is I would never let someone treat me like that.You should let her know you like her and when she gets a little smarter she will come calling for you, just be sweet to her always.

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  • OnThisEpisodeofLife

    wow you seem cool to me

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  • 25starry25

    If you see it happening..you should speak up! What if one day he was drunk and went farther? And something terrible happened to her, how would that make you feel? Try and befriend her first, if she has a bruise or something ask her what happened, tell her if she needs to talk to anyone, you'll be there for her (:

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  • 343Boy

    So she's only with him to be cool? Sounds like you deserve a better girl than that.

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  • theAnomilyGuy

    I agree with the other people who say you should step in and offer to whoop his ass. And when I say offer I mean just serve it to him, don't ask her. The least you'll be doing is helping the girl out, but more than likely you'll make her wet for you at the same time. Go out there and beat some woman beater ass man.

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  • Slice_N_Dice

    If I were you, I would flirt with the idea she's being systematically destroyed. I mean, if I can't enjoy her, then she might as well suffer for not making me happy. Don't interfere, if she likes the guy enough to put up with his shit, she more than likely will not appreciate you for doing something against him. Whatever it is she is getting, the bitch deserves it.

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  • Heh?

    I agree that you should stick up for her, hopefully without requiring violence.

    Who knows? She may even muster enough of her own courage to chance being with you.

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  • dude i know you are shy but you gotta work up the nerve man next time he does it just punch him in the face or in the balls if he is on drugs he probably is messsed up and wont really be able to attack back if he doesnt do it that much then he well im just trying to help you man.

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  • themud

    girls are proven to be attracted to assholes.

    If said asshole does drugs, then even more so because he comes off as 1)badboy and 2)rich enough to buy drugs. Then she's practically in love with him.

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  • You like her but know you have no chance as a bf. So take that off the table. What would a friend do about his abuse of her?

    They'd sit down and talk. So talk with her friends. They would blow the whistle. They wouldn't allow this disgraceful and reprehensible and cowardly behaviour to go ignored, uncommented on and unchallenged.

    You are right that the real character of a man is much deeper than looks. And that there are some real worms who have poor models of what a man is.

    You don't have to be a boyfriend to be a man in this situation and stick up for her, and any other unfortunate (or just silly) girl bamboozled into believing it is cool to be degraded and abused.

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  • tampabayallstar

    If I were you I would take a picture of her being hit and anonymously give it to the authorities... teachers, law enforcement etc.

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  • alone4679

    i wish it was like that

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  • BOYracer88

    thats not on man, seriously step up and stop him, yea its sad that people are so focused on how others perceive them that they are prepared to go through that but hey people are stupid, its just the world

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