Help please? need advice

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There's this boy that i dated for two years. We were in love. We broke up and I moved far away. He is currently dating my best friend. I still hurt for him, he has broken my heart many times. But I noticed whenever i text or talk with him he makes me sick! My stomach starts hurting and I feel nauseous, it has always been like thhis. Is it normal for the person you love to make you feel horribly sick?! I'm visiting soon and will have hold in my feelings, when I see my bestfriend, she knows we loved eachother, what do I do?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    #1. you have a horrible friend. I would never do that.
    #2. If I were you, I would take him over and talk to him. even if he does make you sick, you really need to talk to him
    #3. talk with your "friend". you 2 need to get something straight because obviously you have issues.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Omg that happened to me too! I got sick when a guy I liked asked me out haha. It's normal girl!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    That's happened to me. Tell your friend what a crappy friend they are because if they break up y'all will never ever be as close.

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  • Ike
    13 years ago

    wait a min, he broke up with you and dated your best friend!? that is such a douchey move. this guy was dating my best friend and then when they broke up he started dating my other best friend and it completely destroyed their friendship. im stuck in the middle trying to hold everything together and i cant.

    i give you props for still being friends with your bestie but if i had to give you some advice id say talk to her and tell her that you think it is wrong that he did that and that she breached a wall when she started dating him. if you talk to him its gonna make you feel like shit so try as hard as you can to avoid him. maybe when you go to visit tell your best friend that you want time with just them

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  • gowila
    13 years ago

    Don't visit him. Tell your friend to take a hike also

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    • Mastersash
      13 years ago

      ^amen, sister.

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  • ssj10hey
    13 years ago

    Honestly? Your SOL.
    I'm a guy and I'm usually pretty good with my feelings but a girl I dated crushed me and she still tries to talk to me. I get that same feeling you get.

    best to just try to get over it.
    Would only hurt worse trying to start again.

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  • nutterbutter
    13 years ago

    i used to get those same feelings when i liked a guy that was dating my friend, but he liked me too. i guess i was a little jealous and i really liked him so i would get those feelings whenever i talked to him. he still lets me know sometimes that he has some feelings for me, but i know nothing will change.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    bang them both,then go to i-hop and ya all can talk,,make her pay for lunch.

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