Help! i can't cum! (girl)

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Hi, I am wondering if there is something wrong with me...I can never orgasm when I masturbate or when my boyfriend and I fool around. It feels good but never that good. Its like I just cant do it. I have never been able to cum by myself (except when I use a viberator or hump something) but my ex boyfriend could make me cum when he ate me out. So now I have to fake it with my new boyfriend. How can I learn to orgasm on my own and teach my new boyfriend to do it too? We don't have sex so it would have to be without having sex. Please no nasty comments. This is a serious question and advice is appreciated. Thanks!

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  • WayOutThere
    14 years ago | pl

    The fact that your ex-boyfriend could make you come with his mouth means that you are perfectly healthy. So, it's probably just that you haven't learned to masturbate properly. One solution might be to find someone more experienced to masturbate you, and then teach you how to do it.

    Or, you can just use the vibrator, and have your boyfriend use it on you.

    And, don't fake your orgasms. That just leads to problems.

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  • john001
    14 years ago | pl

    watch a porno before having sex. might help

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      14 years ago | pl

      thanks but we dont have sex so i need advice that doesnt inclue having sex :S

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