He wont touch me

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my boyfriend dont like to hold hands, kiss, hug, be touched or touch me. he dont like to have sex except maybe once every 2 months we are young he is 33 and i am 37. he wont tell me he loves me is this normal. i think its me. he didnt like my hair when we met or my weight or my cloths or where i lived. so i changed my hair, lost weight, bought new cloths and moved. he also didnt like my friends so i pretty much got rid of all of them. i dont like dogs and i did all i could to have his dog live with us and it does, he smokes and i hate it but dont complaine his mom is weird but i still enjoy her being aroung and dont say anything and he dont work and i deal with that also. we cant drink together cause he is mean when he drinks so i stoped drinking for the most part as well and i really enjoy drinking. he likes golf so i go with him we pretty do what he likes most of the time and usually he finds a way to complaine anyway. i dont know what to do i fell in love with him but now dont know i am finding it hard to stay in love with him. i care for him but i am getting depressed. are alot of men like this he dont he thinks female parts are gros for the most part so he wont do things most me would. help out here. is it me?

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    well now im a little like him because i don't like to hold hands, or kiss, I'll kiss you down below tho but him it sounds like he might be gay sens he don't like to fuck you i would but im only 22, and you should not have to change just for some guy if he don't like you for who you are then you should dump him and find a better guy. now me i don't say (love-you) to anybody i get it from my dad i guess i don't believe in saying that word i guess you wouldn't like me either but i can handle my beer and not get all mad and hotheaded thats were that guys a wimp a pussy

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    You shouldn't have had to change yourself at all for someone if they really like you. I'd get rid of him because it's not going to get any better.

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  • scottman586
    13 years ago | pl

    It sounds like you sacrificed everything about who you are to be with this guy. If you're having doubts about the relationship, they seem pretty justifiable.

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