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My husband is a really nice guy and would never lay a hand on me however that's the problem!!! See I really enjoy rough sex he doesn't he likes to "make love" don't get me wrong he takes very good care of me sexually but sometimes while we are doing it I fantasize about him choking me, pulling my hair, slapping me and I cum so hard!! is it normal to have these fantasies ?
If you're already coming hard from the fantasies and he's not interested in the reality, what's the problem? It's normal for couples to have differing sexual needs: if he's not interested in rough stuff he's just not interested.
Thanks yall for the advice ...I actually had a serious conversation with him and you wr right he just is scared to hurt me but he finally came around an OMG he couldnt even blv how much he liked it! he even said he blacked out a bit like an out of body experience!...It always comes down to communication is key/ # paradise
Ohh kinky stuff is hot my gf and i do stuff like that alot we take good care of each other but we go very rough when she fucks me in my ass with a strap on and ties me up chokes me and whips me
Just tell him what you want he may be into the same thing too just afraid to freak you out or hurt you. Once he sees you so into hes come around.
If you want rough and kinky come my way I will take good care of you LOL
Have you discussed this with him? Maybe he will be willing to experiment.
Nope, not normal. Sounds like you've been brainwashed by pornography. Seek psychological help.