He said i was cute and i ran away?

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I have a problem when it comes to guys (and communicating with people in general but read my other story for that). I don't know what to say. What do you say when another guy comes up to you saying another guy thinks you're cute?

This happened to me once in the dinning commons this late august. I was wearing a tight-fitting tank top and short shorts and had just came in from band practice. When I heard this comment I assumed he like my ass as I was wearing shorts-shorts and alot of guys just want to f**k me. (This was reinforced because the guy was black and black guys are usually attracted to my body as a result I don't like them.)

I reacted by looking in the direction to where the guy was sitting and said "oh" and hurried away to sit at the other side of the dining area.

I though that he could've been nice. But what do you say to that?

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    I almost always get super uncomfortable when someone starts flirting with me. I usually end up saying stupid or embarrassing stuff in panic that I had no intention of saying. I also agree with the other users about trusting you gut instinct. This is a very important factor that you should ALWAYS trust. If someone or something gives you bad vibes, do your best to avoid them. Don't get in a relationship with anyone that gives you that negative vibe. Good Luck:).

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  • YBNormal
    13 years ago

    I agree with both comments above, but I also say "trust your gut." If something tells you the situation feels wrong, maybe it's wrong.

    Perhaps if he had approached you differently in some way, maybe you wouldn't have reacted like you did. Maybe you saw a look in his eye, or just felt weirded out. I'm not blaming the guy, I'm just saying something set off an alarm in your head. Generally, it's smart to listen that alarm.

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  • cupcake16
    13 years ago

    I understand why you hurried away but maybe if you like the looks of the guy then go over and talk to him. if he only wants you for your body then just walk away, you're in control after all.
    Don't worry about hurrying away from that guy either, you'll have loads more chances to meet people.
    But the first thing you notice about someone is usually their appearance, the getting to know someone comes after :) x

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  • cucui
    14 years ago

    look no shit but physical attraction is wat will get u noticed most of the time :/
    doesnt mean u should block people out
    doesnt mean u should give EVERYONE a shot either
    but if as u say guys just want to fuck you and thats made u...what, cautious? thats fine but if u want a guy to like you for you, and yet at the same time you wont talk to a guy to give him the chance to even get to know you then wtf
    btw just say watever comes to mind even if it feels corny XD

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