The top one sounds pretty accurate only he's 40, I'm the young one in this relastionship, I'm 20 with no experience in any of this and he has been in many relastionships including a semi abusive wife, at least there divorce was abusive she litterally attacked him. He could be insecure maybe, I know he worries that i think about other men or something since he's a chubbier guy and well his appearance had to grow on me I wasn't attracted to him right away, I've told him countless times that as my feelings grew for him so did my attraction for him, anyways he feels I'm out of his league being tall and skinny and what not. It's ludicrous if you ask me, that's true maybe he's trying to push my buttons. Either way he has he knows I'm a vindictive grudge holding bitch and this would be the first hopefully last time he opens that side of me. I'm stubborn as a dead mule haha. Na I think he just needs to mature and grow up and learn to be more open with me, if he can't I fear and believe we will not last. Honesty trust and loyalty are what I cherish abobe everything and openness is right there next in line so with him being so shut in well it stings you know?
he said I can only get in his pants when he tells me 2
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The top one sounds pretty accurate only he's 40, I'm the young one in this relastionship, I'm 20 with no experience in any of this and he has been in many relastionships including a semi abusive wife, at least there divorce was abusive she litterally attacked him. He could be insecure maybe, I know he worries that i think about other men or something since he's a chubbier guy and well his appearance had to grow on me I wasn't attracted to him right away, I've told him countless times that as my feelings grew for him so did my attraction for him, anyways he feels I'm out of his league being tall and skinny and what not. It's ludicrous if you ask me, that's true maybe he's trying to push my buttons. Either way he has he knows I'm a vindictive grudge holding bitch and this would be the first hopefully last time he opens that side of me. I'm stubborn as a dead mule haha. Na I think he just needs to mature and grow up and learn to be more open with me, if he can't I fear and believe we will not last. Honesty trust and loyalty are what I cherish abobe everything and openness is right there next in line so with him being so shut in well it stings you know?