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This guy that i talk to is the full package really cute, tall, athletic body, funny, cool. He's half asian and half black. I've been cool with him for a long time. he also a ladies man. But the thing is he's not packing at all. I like him genuinely but i am kind of worried about it and please dont just say it doesn't matter.
When you say "packing" you mean dick size? If it bothers you that much, then break up.
If he's 2-3 inches when soft, it's more than likely not a problem! A lot of smaller men actually get up to 3 times bigger when erect.
Try him just to see.
And if penis size really bothers you: Move on!
Have you seen his erect penis yet? how many dicks have you had in which to compare it to?
This is understandable, after all, size does matter. But remember, this is 2017 and the sex toy industry is booming!
Global sales of sex toys were estimated to reach $15 billion in 2014, according to Statistic Brain. And some observers say that figure could grow to $52 billion by 2020.
After you've been with him for a while and more comfortable talking about such things, you could suggest the use of toys, such as a strap on for him that his penis fits inside and can vibrate. It's more fun for both people and gives you the size you want.
The leading cause of divorce is a lack of communication, and the second is sexual infidelity. There are plenty of people in this same situation that does make it work. It does require more work, but can also be more satisfying.
I was with a girl who told me size def matters. She said her ex-bf had to use his fingers and oral most times unless it was a quickie.
Maybe you suggest this guy do the same.
I'm an "average" guy but I think this is good advice for everyone in a relationship.
If you don't feel like you can commit to a relationship long term with his package size then i suggest not wasting his time . My suggestion is to buy yourself a dildo his size and see how you feel about it , think long and hard no pun intended and then ask yourself if you could stay with him and have a happy sex life on a regular basis . If the answer is no , do not break this poor mans heart over an impulsive decision .
Size does matter....
Especially thickness... if you can take it.
I say this as a guy who has had GF into BDSM who enjoyed pegging me. I have enjoyed, and actually had my best orgasms, when either being fisted by such a lady, or with very high quality, very realistic large dongs(talking my wrist thick). Ladies i have been with have always enjoyed thicker, and i am packing decently. I had a few booty calls who i tag teamed with a room mate who was very thick, and they enjoyed his package that much more, i also enjoyed sloppy seconds after him, with the ladies feeling good and stretched out, and ultra slick, i could go for over an hour easy.
It stimulates more nerves, more intensely.
Some guys do get bigger than others when they get hard. If your looking for 9 or 10 inches you better move on. Does he like to go down on you? If he's good at that maybe you should try him in your other little spot and leave that spot for his tongue. That way you could make both your little girls happy. I'm sure if you care that much about him you can make something good happen. You may even talk him into a third party if your into that. Good luck and only you can make that decision. Let me know on hot mail if you need more help
It's pretty simple, if big cock is important to you sexually then move on. If he can please you orally then I guess you need to buy a big dildo to use while he eats you.
"... he's not packing at all", is a very relative expression. So how small are you talking? Maybe if you really like him you can get over it. Well, if you end up meeting a guy who complains about your breast size don't get all butt hurt about it.
I didnt say u where .... I was saying that if you're not going to hook up with him no I wouldn't worry about his small penis problem like who cares if hes small or not