He's my best friend's ex! what should i do?

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So, I'll try to keep this simple. I had this best friend. I hung out with her and her (now ex) boyfriend for a good couple months. We all became really good friends. Her and her ex broke up. She didn't like me talking to him so I deleted him from everything and stopped, like she wanted. A year goes by, I run into him and we start talking again. She flips out. I want to keep talking to him, and hanging out, because we were good friends.. A year has gone by. And i'm not really friends with the girl anymore. Should I pursue it? I know he likes me. Or should I stick to the "girl code" and forget about it? PLEASE HELP ME!!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    Screw the bitch, shes just jealous. Go for it!!!

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  • MrsBailey9
    12 years ago | pl

    Shanice said it. If y'all aren't friends anymore the code is no longer in effect. Go for the guy!

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  • Angel-Ray
    6 years ago | pl

    Sisters before Misters
    Chicks before ****
    Mates before dates
    I'm just saying

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  • sweetbamagirl
    11 years ago | pl

    It's been a year. She's not your friend. It's totally fair.

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  • kkiki
    13 years ago | pl

    Ask her y she dislike u talkin to him so bad. If it's cuz the guys being a jerk then rethink about dating him if she thinks it's just so he's her ex u guys shoulding date than she's just little messed up

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  • Shanice
    13 years ago | pl

    If this was me, well if y'all aren't friends anymore y'all just aren't. Go for it!

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  • roxylinds
    13 years ago | pl

    There are plenty of fish in the sea...go after another one.

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  • stealinsugars
    13 years ago | pl

    What you have to ask yourself is how much do you value this girl's friendship. You know it will be over if you go out with this guy. Is it worth it? How are you going to feel when your friend starts talking about you behind your back? You know it can and probably will get nasty. I think you know the answer to your question. Getting advice from a website won't change it. I think you should forget him and move on, but it's your life. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

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