He honesty doesn't even know how....once when I was not showing him sexual attention he tried throwing me a hint instead of just asking or whatever by jacking it kinda I guess to show 'hey I'm horny,look at me' and it was pathetic. It looked like he was struggling and it looked painful the was he was trying to do it...I just told him to stop and did it for him.
See I think that this might be manipulation. Not really extensive or damaging, but how are you going to stimulate him, presumably with him not blindfolded or whatever, without him knowing what to do properly?
Also practice is necessary for everything, you could literally tell him that it looks painful and 'guide' him on it. Just make sure that you aren't the one doing it entirely.
The kicker is he has no desire to do it, he's just touching it because he's throwing a hint that he wants me to make him cum. Ive told him it looks painful and he does tell me it really doesn't feel good when he's doing it but he has seen and felt me doing it many times and even has request on what he likes and wants me to do....I can tell he has no intention of actually stimulating himself because he doesn't even use any lubrication like he asks me to use when I do it. He told me he has no desire to masterbate and wants me to satisfy him 100%. I don't mind that but sometimes when I don't feel like it he gets upset.
Okay that's unusual. Like instead of telling him to do it to himself, you should just tell him you don't want to do it. If he begins maturating as a way to goad you in to doing it for him, just let him. If he gets upset, that's a point when an argument should probably take it's course. You're unhappy, think about it like this: he knows you don't always feel comfortable doing something, yet he always demands you do that regardless. He isn't showing any consideration for your feelings. However, final recommendation, before arguing, ask him why he doesn't like doing it to himself. Try and get to a root problem, if he says, "It doesn't feel good", ask him what makes you doing it better. Should he say it's that someone else is doing it, get him a fleshlight. Honestly, this guy sounds like a manipulative cunt that doesn't care about anything except his own desire. Probably not getting the best picture but I wouldn't stand for this. It's a slippery slope.
Yeah I think im starting to realize he's not a sexual match for me. I try to be sexual with him as much as I can but im not into it as much as he is and the fact that his sex drive is higher than mine adds fuel to the fire and the fact that im unhappy about other things he does makes me not attracted to him 100%. As far as him masturbating I think he just doesn't have the juice. He's not extremely sexually open and is somewhat on the conservative side but is attracted to me to a huge extent. I just hate to feel like im not taking care of his needs.
By him treating you this way, he isn't taking care of yours.
I wish you all the best in whatever happens, I stand by my previous comment about separating after arguing after talking.
He may have to learn to do it himself or you'll have to tell him NO/IGNORE it. If its too frequent you need to make sure he knows how much it bothers you
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Next time you don't want to, just tell him to do it himself. Simple.
And I know a few men who don't because of religion or otherwise, it's not not normal.
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See I think that this might be manipulation. Not really extensive or damaging, but how are you going to stimulate him, presumably with him not blindfolded or whatever, without him knowing what to do properly?
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The kicker is he has no desire to do it, he's just touching it because he's throwing a hint that he wants me to make him cum. Ive told him it looks painful and he does tell me it really doesn't feel good when he's doing it but he has seen and felt me doing it many times and even has request on what he likes and wants me to do....I can tell he has no intention of actually stimulating himself because he doesn't even use any lubrication like he asks me to use when I do it. He told me he has no desire to masterbate and wants me to satisfy him 100%. I don't mind that but sometimes when I don't feel like it he gets upset.
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Okay that's unusual. Like instead of telling him to do it to himself, you should just tell him you don't want to do it. If he begins maturating as a way to goad you in to doing it for him, just let him. If he gets upset, that's a point when an argument should probably take it's course. You're unhappy, think about it like this: he knows you don't always feel comfortable doing something, yet he always demands you do that regardless. He isn't showing any consideration for your feelings. However, final recommendation, before arguing, ask him why he doesn't like doing it to himself. Try and get to a root problem, if he says, "It doesn't feel good", ask him what makes you doing it better. Should he say it's that someone else is doing it, get him a fleshlight. Honestly, this guy sounds like a manipulative cunt that doesn't care about anything except his own desire. Probably not getting the best picture but I wouldn't stand for this. It's a slippery slope.
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Yeah I think im starting to realize he's not a sexual match for me. I try to be sexual with him as much as I can but im not into it as much as he is and the fact that his sex drive is higher than mine adds fuel to the fire and the fact that im unhappy about other things he does makes me not attracted to him 100%. As far as him masturbating I think he just doesn't have the juice. He's not extremely sexually open and is somewhat on the conservative side but is attracted to me to a huge extent. I just hate to feel like im not taking care of his needs.
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By him treating you this way, he isn't taking care of yours.
I wish you all the best in whatever happens, I stand by my previous comment about separating after arguing after talking.
He may have to learn to do it himself or you'll have to tell him NO/IGNORE it. If its too frequent you need to make sure he knows how much it bothers you