He never made me come
Ok so we married for 14 years but I never climax with him
Is it normal?
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sometimes it's a fine-tuned thing. He hasn't purposefully not learned how to make you come, he's possibly sitting at home thinking "why the fuck can't I make my wife come??"
Orgasms are a mental thing, if you tell yourself "well I'll never come with my husband" often enough then you wont ever come.
You need to SHOW him how to get you, explain what it was that you liked best.
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I see you've said that he's never learned how to satisfy you.... but have YOU learned what works for you?
You have to know this first. Men can be dense sometimes - sometimes you pretty much have to train them on what to do.
the best thing to consider is communication. it can be risky cos it'll also mean listening to what HE wants too. consider what you want in bed - not just orgasms but what specifically you want that works. and what you don't ever want. and what you'll try if he wants you to.
and then listening to HIS lists too - what he wants, what he doesn't want, and what he's willing to compromise on.
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I didn't wait I told him from the beggining but it didn't work I was hoping it'll change but it didn't he never learnt how to satisfy me not even close to my privious relationships. I'm in middle life(40) crisis and I can't exept to stay like this for the rest of my life but I also can't just separate we have a life family together.
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Yesss I did climax with others that why I'm so disappointed of this it is about care patient and will that's all but I think I gave up on my sex life 98% I used to love sex now I'm just mourning on all my best years that's gone without sex but I've got a family and 3 kids thank god
We are from deferent countries deferent mentality we need deferent things.
I appreciate all your comments it's really nice nit to feel alone with this.
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I'm glad I can help. I'd hate to say that sex is a reason to throw away a relationship, but if he isn't satisfying you, maybe it is time to move on. Unless you're willing to endure more years of unfulfilling sex..if you still love him, you could probably get past this. If the love is gone, you should be gone too.
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