Do me a favor, get on your knees, and thank God right now for giving you a sign that is so bright and clear. Seriously, you're so lucky that she's giving you red flags in your face rather than behind your back. Yea, it's pretty disrespectful for her to throw hints in your face like that, but like I always say, better in your face than behind your back.
Anyways, my advice is, you should CONSIDER this relationship over but you should "ride it out" to see how it goes. Personally, I think if you have a gut feeling that your relationship is over, just keep it going and gather all of the red flags and evidence you can. Ultimately, that being said, it will only make your gut feeling that much stronger in a future relationship. For example, if you leave her now, you'll never find out any additional hints she may have dropped prior to potentially cheating. On the other hand, if you keep things going, and for example her behavior becomes even more strange and ultimately decides to break up with you or cheat on you, then next time you look for a mate you'll be smart enough to look for these red flags before you begin dating.
Get as much information out of her and be as cunning as you can. As far as your guy friend goes, before you befriend his ass, since this relationship has basically turn to garbage, consider him a former friend. I would allow them to flirt and gather intel. Since you're girlfriend is stupid enough to tell you what she likes about him and what he does, she's doing nothing more than ratting him out. Punch him in the face for flirting with your girlfriend (not literally). A real friend wouldn't do that.
It disturbs me that you think about this everyday. Seriously dude, I don't even know you and I'm concerned. That's disturbing. Don't you ever let a girl ride your feelings like this again. Real women know their boundaries and would never be so flirtatious with other guys. This is seriously borderline cheating.
Lastly, @VioletTrees has a good point. Since you're so compatible with your douchebag friend's gf, you guys should switch. I wouldn't remain friends with him afterwards, however.
He keeps flirting with my girlfriend...
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Do me a favor, get on your knees, and thank God right now for giving you a sign that is so bright and clear. Seriously, you're so lucky that she's giving you red flags in your face rather than behind your back. Yea, it's pretty disrespectful for her to throw hints in your face like that, but like I always say, better in your face than behind your back.
Anyways, my advice is, you should CONSIDER this relationship over but you should "ride it out" to see how it goes. Personally, I think if you have a gut feeling that your relationship is over, just keep it going and gather all of the red flags and evidence you can. Ultimately, that being said, it will only make your gut feeling that much stronger in a future relationship. For example, if you leave her now, you'll never find out any additional hints she may have dropped prior to potentially cheating. On the other hand, if you keep things going, and for example her behavior becomes even more strange and ultimately decides to break up with you or cheat on you, then next time you look for a mate you'll be smart enough to look for these red flags before you begin dating.
Get as much information out of her and be as cunning as you can. As far as your guy friend goes, before you befriend his ass, since this relationship has basically turn to garbage, consider him a former friend. I would allow them to flirt and gather intel. Since you're girlfriend is stupid enough to tell you what she likes about him and what he does, she's doing nothing more than ratting him out. Punch him in the face for flirting with your girlfriend (not literally). A real friend wouldn't do that.
It disturbs me that you think about this everyday. Seriously dude, I don't even know you and I'm concerned. That's disturbing. Don't you ever let a girl ride your feelings like this again. Real women know their boundaries and would never be so flirtatious with other guys. This is seriously borderline cheating.
Lastly, @VioletTrees has a good point. Since you're so compatible with your douchebag friend's gf, you guys should switch. I wouldn't remain friends with him afterwards, however.