He is hitting me

Hey guys, i hope this won't be too long :) Well my boyfriend and i went to gym today and i was laying on a yoga mat, he came and hit my mat with his leg(sorry for my english). My head was right there where he hit the mat. I know he would never hurt me or hit me but i dont like what he did. Also the other day he threw this little gym tool on my head. He was like ,,hahahah sorry i didnt mean to hit your head" and i was like ,,whatever you meant to hit, its so bad" of course i started crying. I told him that those things bother me and he told me that im made of wood and ,,sorry princess". And he's not the type to hug me randomly and kiss me and thats exactly what i need. I dont know..do you think im too fragile for him? We're in a relationship 5 years and he still doesnt understand me, he knows that im sensitive as fuck but keeps doing those things. I cant remember what else he does, if i do, ill edit the post. I dont think he's good for my soul at all

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  • ZaneT

    You say you've spent 5 years trying to fix him and look how he treats you in return. Stop trying to be his savior. All he is doing is draining you by the details you have shared. You're better than that and deserve better.

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  • MR.mr

    break up

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  • ZaneT

    Sounds like an insensitive person who thinks he's better than you. If he knows you don't like it but does it any way, that's not cool.

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  • GYBY

    You're too fragile for me to even read about it. Leave him.

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  • silkspector

    Leave the bastard no man has the right to hit a woman ever

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  • ßrokenAngel

    GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP NOW NUFF SAID

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  • CrystalMethodist

    Only dumb girls try to fix guys. He's easy to get because of all these undesirable characteristics and all I need to do is turn him into somebody I actually want to date.

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  • yesnomaybeso

    Although I wouldn't use the word hit, if you are not comfortable when he does these things it's fair enough that you complain. If you start getting scared, though, you have to do something about it. I wouldn't want him to keep increasing his violent acts and .. yo ugetting hurt in the end

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  • rayb12

    Say this to him

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    • Kristinica

      I told him everything that i told you...he still thinks i got mad over stupid thing. Ive spent this 5 years fixing him cause i was crazy in love and im sick of it

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      • Ellenna

        "Fixing him"? No one can "fix" someone else so I must have been 5 years of unsuccessfully trying to change him. I'm not surprised you're sick of it and you were (and are?) almost certainly crazy in love with how you want him to be, otherwise you wouldn't have felt the need to change him.

        Move on: this sort of relationship can go nowhere positive and sorry, but you've been wasting your time.

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        • Kristinica

          Everything you said is right. I wouldnt really say i wasted time cause we did a lot of nice things and visited countries and stuff but i cant imagine living with him, insensitive af.
          Once we were in non english speaking country and i felt so sick and hungry and nausios and i told him to go buy me some food and he went there and comes back in 1 minute WITHOUT food and im like wheres the food? And he's laughing and says ,,haha there wasnt s price tag" whoooa i got so mad, couldnt you fucking say ,,how much is this fucking potato chips" . And then i went there by myself and got it..and i was so mad and he told me that im frustrated..im like im frustrated cause ur an idiot

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      • rayb12

        I'm sorry. Would hug you or whatever appropriate gesture in person. I'm sure you will figure out something.

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  • Ellenna

    He's an insensitive oaf and you deserve better

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    • Kristinica

      Its true, i always overthink if its a real reason for break up but i guess it is, he fills me with negative emotions

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