He doesn't make me his priority

So there's this guy which is my EX, we been talking for awhile aleast for the past two month's up till I told him I truly felt. About how he doesn't make me feel like I'm his priority at all really. I've always been going out my way to contact him and he usually reponds back to me. But at the same time I felt tired of going out of my way for him. We were together for almost 5 year's and I was the one who broke thing's off with him for a reason. He was taking the time out talking to other female's while we were still together and here I am been thinking he's doing it again. But we both also have had deep conversations which was back in March we talked about getting a place together & everything and now it's August. I'm not so sure what to think of him anymore. I pretty much told him yesterday that I felt he was taking the time out for me like I been doing with him. And now he was going back to not talking too me after like 5-6 days with him not contacting me. So I figured he would at some point try and contact me up till I told him how I really felt about him making me feel the way he does. I was always the one trying with him even when we were still together but his lack of efforts aren't showing me much at all.

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  • Veroocasalt

    What ever is going on here I don't think you should be getting a place with this guy right now. From what you say it sounds as though you've set out how you would like things to be and he isn't responding in line with your hopes so that doesn't sound good to me either. Maybe your hopes don't fit with his way of doing things but if so he should be telling you, and if this isn't happening then that all sounds like you were right to split in the first place.

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  • CDmale4fem

    Plain and simple- If he can't or won't make you his priority then find someone who will. We all deserve to be wanted, loved, needed, etc.

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  • RoseIsabella

    He's your ex for a reason! Leave him alone, and get on with your life.

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