Come on, you really don't know the answer to this one ? He's gonna fucking kill you one day, or at least beat the shit out of you. You can stop that now.
I know it sounds straightforward but he's really not an aggressive person - I've done bad things when I've been drinking before too so I can understand. I feel like if I had flinched or acted scared or upset when he was coming at me he would have stopped, he was just battered and wanted a reaction from me because I was being really cold and superior. He's never been possessive, controlling, jealous, manipulative, any of the warning signs - except for this one incident when he was incredibly drunk and maybe two other times where he's pushed me when he's been drunk (not out of the blue like this, but for example one time I was wasted and we were fighting and I wouldn't go into the flat so he shoved me inside).
I'm sorry for the long-ass comment, I'm really confused because I don't want this to be the start of anything, I REALLY DONT WANT TO GET MURDERED LOL. But I really love this guy and I know how much he loves me so I don't want to leave him if there is any chance it was a one-off. I am generally a rational person and I can't tell if my judgment is clouded because of my love for him.
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Come on, you really don't know the answer to this one ? He's gonna fucking kill you one day, or at least beat the shit out of you. You can stop that now.
Leave him.
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I know it sounds straightforward but he's really not an aggressive person - I've done bad things when I've been drinking before too so I can understand. I feel like if I had flinched or acted scared or upset when he was coming at me he would have stopped, he was just battered and wanted a reaction from me because I was being really cold and superior. He's never been possessive, controlling, jealous, manipulative, any of the warning signs - except for this one incident when he was incredibly drunk and maybe two other times where he's pushed me when he's been drunk (not out of the blue like this, but for example one time I was wasted and we were fighting and I wouldn't go into the flat so he shoved me inside).
I'm sorry for the long-ass comment, I'm really confused because I don't want this to be the start of anything, I REALLY DONT WANT TO GET MURDERED LOL. But I really love this guy and I know how much he loves me so I don't want to leave him if there is any chance it was a one-off. I am generally a rational person and I can't tell if my judgment is clouded because of my love for him.
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So, you only presented your side of the story. I would like to see his side of it. Your judgment is clouded because of your love for him.
The minute he choked you he be came violent. It will get worse. Leave on your feet or roll out in a body bad. Choose wisely, Grasshopper