If he just "out of the blue" asked for a pair if your panties, in a new relationship, I would agree with you that's a bit creepy, but you say things got a bit heated up and the two of you were discussing fetishes and desires. In that context I think his request was perfectly normal!
If you two aren't both on the same page why waste time pussyfooting around? May as we'll find out now so you can both move on toward whatever you're looking for!
No it wasn't out of the blue. We indeed were talking about sexual desires and such. But the slightly frightening thing is that he said "That is the most tame of my desires."
You really missed the boat if you didn't ask HIM that question! You might have some common interests that you could have a lot of fun sharing together. I always wished that me and my wife could have such a conversation. She has never admitted to having any fantasies, or desires, other than straight sex in the missionary position, and she claims she NEVER played with herself, and thinks it's sick that I do.I can't even share any of my fantasies with her, because like I said, she already thinks I'm sick, just because she thinks I JO a lot.
Gosh, that sounds awful. It's a terrible thing when you can't communicate with your partner about stuff like that! Well he is pretty open about his desires; I'm sure if I ask him he will tell me what he likes.
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If he just "out of the blue" asked for a pair if your panties, in a new relationship, I would agree with you that's a bit creepy, but you say things got a bit heated up and the two of you were discussing fetishes and desires. In that context I think his request was perfectly normal!
If you two aren't both on the same page why waste time pussyfooting around? May as we'll find out now so you can both move on toward whatever you're looking for!
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No it wasn't out of the blue. We indeed were talking about sexual desires and such. But the slightly frightening thing is that he said "That is the most tame of my desires."
Well what the heck are his other desires?
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You really missed the boat if you didn't ask HIM that question! You might have some common interests that you could have a lot of fun sharing together. I always wished that me and my wife could have such a conversation. She has never admitted to having any fantasies, or desires, other than straight sex in the missionary position, and she claims she NEVER played with herself, and thinks it's sick that I do.I can't even share any of my fantasies with her, because like I said, she already thinks I'm sick, just because she thinks I JO a lot.
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Gosh, that sounds awful. It's a terrible thing when you can't communicate with your partner about stuff like that! Well he is pretty open about his desires; I'm sure if I ask him he will tell me what he likes.