Having too much sex bad, good, boring

Well my partnah always wants to have sex right before we sleep, but sometimes I dont feel into the mood, what are ways to make me in the mood or even try to get sex off the subject for the night. I dont know what to do. I love sex, but how do you know when its too much or not.

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  • randypete

    you cant have too much sex

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  • joelsmo

    its never too much for the person who wants it. Here is a little insight on relationships. For some reason in our society people think the person with the lower sex drive should dictate the amount of sex they have, thus the divorce rate is so high, and people cheat. How about putting in a xxx movie or reading a dirty book and get in the mood.

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  • SALMAN

    sex is very good for you because the more you have sex you will stay strong and healthy i have sex everyday and i know got a six pack because of it and my girlfriend loves it as well

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  • mileycyrus

    U just wa nt do love ur personthat u love

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  • sexyitalian

    Sexy yet normal

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  • DINLA100

    no such thing as too much sex

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  • plzdonglaugh

    Good.

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  • CreativeThinker

    for some.... sex till death....

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  • Rockaj157

    Your right but ur partner should understand ur feelings about sex. and its depend on every persons body to have sex allot.and it is all about ur age.if ur mature then its ok.

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  • Namarta

    I agree- be honest about your feelings. But if you think you're having "too much sex" then find someone who wants the amount of sex you do.

    You don't say whether you are a man or a woman.

    If you are a man and your wife wants "too much sex", then I am afraid that the answer is to send her around to me, or watch while I fuck her. xx

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  • Rocky_V

    Thank you ppl for the advice, I'll do just that

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  • You know its too much when you are saying to yourself "this is too much." You have to negotiate things with your partner.

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    • PS - don't get faked out by some phony schedule - "x" number of times a week etc.

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  • mtnw

    everybodys sexual needs are different, and some don't want it every night, some do. i suppose it's time you two talked it over.

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  • BrightEyes

    Bazwell is right; you both have to be on the same page with this topic. If you don't feel like having sex, don't do it because then you might associate the act with that negative, bored feeling.

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  • bazwell

    You know it's too much when you are not in the mood for it, are not turned on or interested in doing it, yet are engaged in it. That there is a definite indication.

    if you and your partner are not able to communicate about when to have sex, then I'll speculate that there are other aspects of the relationship that you are not able to communicate openly about. Sex may be a good place to start. Speak with your partner about how you feel, let your partner know that you desire them and don't want to stop having sex with them, but just don't want to do it when you are not 'mentally' into it. Be honest, but be delicate with your partners feelings.

    Best of luck to you!

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