Oh hun it is, and it's not your fault for feeling what you feel. You can't help it the attractions just there. And you should in no way feel guilty about it because everyone has a crush on their close friends every now and then. You know them well and they know you, you can talk to them about anything and trust them with anything and I think that's why you like them. Because you aren't afraid to just be yourself and that is okay. If you are truley botherd by this though maybe you should just spend sometime to yourself for a while..away from all the friends and drama that's going on.. Ask yourslef if you honestly have feelings for them and if you do it's fine, if they arent gay and you don't want to ruin your friendship then don't act out on the feelings because you don't want to lose them, but if you feel comfortable to talk to them about it then just tell them how you feel, explain to them that you know they arent gay and that you would never do anything to hurt your friendship with them. Don't bring yourself down or thing you are a horrible person because of this because everyone strait or gay goes through this with a friend. I honestly hope everything turns out positive in the end, and just remember to be proud of who you are and don't let anyone make you feel bad because you're gay. The people who do are just ignorant and they don't care about anyone elses feelings. Good luck :)
Having strong feelings you really shouldn't.
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Oh hun it is, and it's not your fault for feeling what you feel. You can't help it the attractions just there. And you should in no way feel guilty about it because everyone has a crush on their close friends every now and then. You know them well and they know you, you can talk to them about anything and trust them with anything and I think that's why you like them. Because you aren't afraid to just be yourself and that is okay. If you are truley botherd by this though maybe you should just spend sometime to yourself for a while..away from all the friends and drama that's going on.. Ask yourslef if you honestly have feelings for them and if you do it's fine, if they arent gay and you don't want to ruin your friendship then don't act out on the feelings because you don't want to lose them, but if you feel comfortable to talk to them about it then just tell them how you feel, explain to them that you know they arent gay and that you would never do anything to hurt your friendship with them. Don't bring yourself down or thing you are a horrible person because of this because everyone strait or gay goes through this with a friend. I honestly hope everything turns out positive in the end, and just remember to be proud of who you are and don't let anyone make you feel bad because you're gay. The people who do are just ignorant and they don't care about anyone elses feelings. Good luck :)