I'm the same sittuation you are. But I'm little older (19) and kind of get used to it. What you feel is perfectly normal. The bad part is that I have no idea how to solve the problem, I just got used to it, like I said, but sometimes it's a pain in the ass.
What I have to say is that you're not wrong or anything because what you feel, specially because it's not your fault at all. You can't control what you feel, so don't feel guilty about it. The confusion part will go away soon, but the pain... well, it won't hurt that much all the time.
And if you wanna an advise, don't tell your friends, unless you're really sure the person won't mind, but still, I think the best is you do not tell.
And remember, it's not who you are inside, but what you do what defines you. It's kind of a filosophy I believe in.
Having strong feelings you really shouldn't.
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I'm the same sittuation you are. But I'm little older (19) and kind of get used to it. What you feel is perfectly normal. The bad part is that I have no idea how to solve the problem, I just got used to it, like I said, but sometimes it's a pain in the ass.
What I have to say is that you're not wrong or anything because what you feel, specially because it's not your fault at all. You can't control what you feel, so don't feel guilty about it. The confusion part will go away soon, but the pain... well, it won't hurt that much all the time.
And if you wanna an advise, don't tell your friends, unless you're really sure the person won't mind, but still, I think the best is you do not tell.
And remember, it's not who you are inside, but what you do what defines you. It's kind of a filosophy I believe in.
Wish good luck in your life. :/