some would say that's sweet however. Don't you think it's unfair on him and yourself? Because if you keep holding on the dream of "being together".. you will always compare new love interests with him.
Sounds like your scared of the future. Don't hold on the past for comfort, you need to move forward. Because if you meant to be together, then it would of already happened by now.
if anything you are in what many males would consider the friend zone.
I'm cool with the way things are. I'm not necessarily holding on to the fact that I think we'll be together in the future, it's definitely a possibility if we continue to straighten out our lives.
My ex wants to be with me, but he is a bit of a pathological liar. Lies for no reason at all, and I find it hard to believe him at times. He also suffers from bipolar disorder so I find that I'm very lenient with him when maybe I shouldn't be. So I'm kind of the one who's friendzoning him.
I'm actually in the process of pursuing my male best friend. I friendzoned him in the past, and we grew very close and only started sleeping together recently. He doesn't know that I have developed deep feelings for him though. They both know about each other.
This sounds like a therapy session lol, all in all, it's probably best that I just remain single for now and just go with the flow and not force anything.
Having an Ex as a friend?
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some would say that's sweet however. Don't you think it's unfair on him and yourself? Because if you keep holding on the dream of "being together".. you will always compare new love interests with him.
Sounds like your scared of the future. Don't hold on the past for comfort, you need to move forward. Because if you meant to be together, then it would of already happened by now.
if anything you are in what many males would consider the friend zone.
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I'm cool with the way things are. I'm not necessarily holding on to the fact that I think we'll be together in the future, it's definitely a possibility if we continue to straighten out our lives.
My ex wants to be with me, but he is a bit of a pathological liar. Lies for no reason at all, and I find it hard to believe him at times. He also suffers from bipolar disorder so I find that I'm very lenient with him when maybe I shouldn't be. So I'm kind of the one who's friendzoning him.
I'm actually in the process of pursuing my male best friend. I friendzoned him in the past, and we grew very close and only started sleeping together recently. He doesn't know that I have developed deep feelings for him though. They both know about each other.
This sounds like a therapy session lol, all in all, it's probably best that I just remain single for now and just go with the flow and not force anything.