Having a crush and falling in love, is it different?

For me it is. I can have crushes on people I'm not attracted to, but I can't fall in love with them. Strangely,at some point in my life, I just stopped developing crushes.

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  • I would be curious to know your age..regarding "I just stopped developing crushes". If you're younger, I would say it's sad to give up & be jaded like that. If you're older (like moi) I totally understand it. You can have 'crushes' on people b/c of a camaraderie with them or very good friendship, kindred spirit type thing--and not be in love. Real love, my dear, is tough to find nowadays, but when it happens..."you just know it, through and through, balls to bones" ...yes I used a Matrix quote, I'm a dork. Don't give up friend.

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  • You know you love someone when you can pee in front of them, that way you know that youre not scared of them not liking you anymore. hard to explain lolol.

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  • Dick cheese

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  • Try and come over to my place and you can have fun with all the monsters and ghouls.

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  • you can only trust a woman who farts in front of you

    if they dont fart what else r they hiding 0.0

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  • I had lots of crushes in my life, but there was only one time that I actually feel in love.

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  • if you feel infatuated. believe me it's not love cuz that rush never NEVER lasts, just long enough for a pregnancy, (cuz thats what they're for)... HEY! I went full circle! :s

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  • i'm in a relationship and I still have little 'mini-crushes' here and there. ^_^

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  • love is when your not jealous or insecure with them, you dont care how they look ever again, and you're so close it's as if you two have molded together. you can't live properly without the other.

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  • yes they are different, a crush will not last long and isn't aa true feeling for someone but falling in love could laast for months or even years

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  • There is totally a difference. I've had crushes, and flings, and serious relationships...but nothing compares to what I stumbled upon last year when i Met my Fiance <3 love is unconditional, no doubts, amazing. But i guess thats the same as a crush. Its when you both know you're innit for the longrun, to love, care and protect...an unspoken agreement <3

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  • I get them muddled up sometimes, and think I'm head over heels with someone, then quickly realise that was just the initial rush of excitement, and actually I've just got a crush.

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