Having a crush and falling in love, is it different?
For me it is. I can have crushes on people I'm not attracted to, but I can't fall in love with them. Strangely,at some point in my life, I just stopped developing crushes.
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For me it is. I can have crushes on people I'm not attracted to, but I can't fall in love with them. Strangely,at some point in my life, I just stopped developing crushes.
I would be curious to know your age..regarding "I just stopped developing crushes". If you're younger, I would say it's sad to give up & be jaded like that. If you're older (like moi) I totally understand it. You can have 'crushes' on people b/c of a camaraderie with them or very good friendship, kindred spirit type thing--and not be in love. Real love, my dear, is tough to find nowadays, but when it happens..."you just know it, through and through, balls to bones" ...yes I used a Matrix quote, I'm a dork. Don't give up friend.
There is totally a difference. I've had crushes, and flings, and serious relationships...but nothing compares to what I stumbled upon last year when i Met my Fiance <3 love is unconditional, no doubts, amazing. But i guess thats the same as a crush. Its when you both know you're innit for the longrun, to love, care and protect...an unspoken agreement <3