Haven't had sex yet!

I am a virgin and I'm, 23. It just hasn't happened yet and I don't know how it will get. I can guess I will be embarrassed with a guy looking at me naked.
And I am no 100% comfortable with my body.

1. one its painful
2. You got to be pampered
3. be ready

I am unbelievable shy around guys my age that are cute. This is gonna be a long all, I am ready I just need the guts. Is it normal?

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92% Normal
Based on 25 votes (23 yes)
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  • SEWnanist23

    It's becoming a time where anything goes. It's not suprising that people are still afraid to have sex, it goes for both males and females. Sometimes it could be very surprising to find out who hasn't had sex until they admit it. I was social phobic and didn't have a GF till I was 27. I dated, made out, and bated till I was 27. According to a woman I met when I was 19 saw me again at 24 had the intuition that I had not been vaginally sheithed yet. Embarrasing but true. I also would admit to my solo activity. I was gettin used to admiting to my virginity and solosexuality. I had a sleigh ride for about 5 years but dropped out and became a complete soloist again, it feels good and right, my hand could be loose, my hand could be tight. I believe very strongly in masturbation and could be a very good sexual release.

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  • Flredneck

    I hope im that guy

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  • shy88girl

    I will try until I find him

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  • DefinitelyNotNormal89

    Shy88girl you are just lovely =)
    A man doesn't need to see your body when they have sex with you, if you're self conscious just turn the lights off, eventually you'll become comfortable enough to strip off in front of them.
    My first time didn't hurt but women are all different- all you have to think of is if it hurt THAT much we wouldn't do it again.
    And yes you have to be ready, some guys love shy girls so don't worry about that, you will find the right guy and you'll know when it's right.
    Finally yes it's normal, just take your time with it and don't go looking for love, love will find you

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    • shy88girl

      thanks. I hope it doesn't hurt, but it will, I can tell. I hope a guy doesn't mind me being a virgin.

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      • DefinitelyNotNormal89

        Naaaah course he wont, and if he does he's not worth the time of day, you'll find someone =)

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  • shy88girl

    i will be ready, i will just take time

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  • chaosdragoon1

    If you don't have the guts, then you are not ready. Don't confuse knowing the contents with being willing to open the box.

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