OK -that you exchange numbers means you only meet girls casually, like in the club scene. It doesn't surprise me that you are being blown off. You don't even know each other. And the girl is the more vulnerable going out alone with someone they don't know.
Wrong strategy. Try activities where you will meet & get to know women before dating. You seem pretty active & could find interest groups. I also think jeff182 has a point about inviting people to activities. The point is - safe & no-pressure ground where people get to know one another before taking things further.
When channel surfing I've caught bits of a show where guys are rated trying to hustle phone numbers from girls at clubs. It has to be among the shallowest & dumbest things I've seen.
Haven't had a relationship with a girl in over 2 years.
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OK -that you exchange numbers means you only meet girls casually, like in the club scene. It doesn't surprise me that you are being blown off. You don't even know each other. And the girl is the more vulnerable going out alone with someone they don't know.
Wrong strategy. Try activities where you will meet & get to know women before dating. You seem pretty active & could find interest groups. I also think jeff182 has a point about inviting people to activities. The point is - safe & no-pressure ground where people get to know one another before taking things further.
When channel surfing I've caught bits of a show where guys are rated trying to hustle phone numbers from girls at clubs. It has to be among the shallowest & dumbest things I've seen.