Haven't had a relationship with a girl in over 2 years.

It's normal to feel like this. I've been there.

Instead of focusing on dating, fill you life with fun and interesting things you like to do and from time to time, invite women to come along for the ride.

I never "ask" for dates. Usually I say something like, "I'm going to this modern furniture store tomorrow night, you should come." It's subtle but you don't give up any power.

Women give out numbers all the time. It's a numbers game. Keep it up.

Conversations need to create attraction in women. Think about what does. Watch some Bond movies and "triumph the insult comic dog". It'll help.

Good Luck.

that's a sucky feelings

Been going through mostly the same shit here... except that I'm also having the same trouble finding a job in this terrible economy. I've been looking for a steady job since 2009 (3 years now) and I still can't find shit. I'm living with family in the dining room, and on food stamps just to survive and stay off the street. I can build and repair computers, but can't even land a job at WalMart. I try to make money by fixing computers from home, but nobody has money and they're all flakes. If I advertize like crazy (online, on light poles around my city, in parking lots, holding a big sign, handing out business cards, I can maybe pull in $200 in an entire month. Things are bad. Being single and alone makes things even more depressing.

if you called me up, i just want you to be straightforward and tell me that you want to fuck me... i would say yes as long as you don't care about how my body looks like, lol... i have not had sex for over 2 years and i masturbate every single day, i'm sure you do too but then there are times where i try stopping lol but it's hard ): do you feel the same way?

OK -that you exchange numbers means you only meet girls casually, like in the club scene. It doesn't surprise me that you are being blown off. You don't even know each other. And the girl is the more vulnerable going out alone with someone they don't know.

Wrong strategy. Try activities where you will meet & get to know women before dating. You seem pretty active & could find interest groups. I also think jeff182 has a point about inviting people to activities. The point is - safe & no-pressure ground where people get to know one another before taking things further.

When channel surfing I've caught bits of a show where guys are rated trying to hustle phone numbers from girls at clubs. It has to be among the shallowest & dumbest things I've seen.

I will add this, even the govt is now taking notice that young girls are becoming more agressive ala fighting and bullying. I am glad I am not a man or a dating in these times.

My son said the same thing. He like many men seem to just want a nice girl and they are getting something else. from the la fitness shooter to you and others and the fact that the experts are now worried about how aggressive girls are, note you tube attacks proudly posted online, that what you want and what your are getting is hard. I am seriously thinking of creating a new site for such ppl. I to am fed up with the vile people out there and know there is still a lot of good people out there willing to be nice. We want those nice people we need them to be the honest ppl they are for being judges, doctors, teachers and other people we know must be above reproach.