Have you ever rejected a girl who offers you an one night stand?

34 Comments
Of course not! Why would I do that? 36
Yes, and then I felt regrets. 29
Yes. I do not have sex with everyone. 65
Can't answer, cause no girl has ever offered me that. 60
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  • megadriver
    10 years ago

    Yes. But I was true to my girlfriend. I can't just cheat like that on my girl. Not even for one night.
    In a relationship - reject one night stand
    Not in one - oh yeah!

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    • Shugaboom
      10 years ago

      I admire you are trust on your girlfriend. However I do not support one night stand either, I think they are too risky, but I respect everyone's choices and I repeat, it is pretty cool you do not cheat on your girl.
      :^)

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    • robbieforgotpw
      10 years ago

      To OP:

      I crapped in my pants and she rejected me

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      • Shugaboom
        10 years ago

        I'm the OP.
        I'm so sorry for you. I guess... :/

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        • noid
          10 years ago

          Lol

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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    No, although I've not had a huge number of opportunities and I definitely would reject a one night stand with a girl if there was a good reason to. I can't think of many girls I'd turn down on the grounds of them not being attractive enough, though.

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    • Shugaboom
      10 years ago

      Yes, that's exactly what I think! There's no need to get laid with the first person who walks around you. Definitely, there is no need.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    I've been asked a few times, and I said no. The most interesting part about it was the look in most of their faces. They honestly expected me to say yes, which is probably partially why I said no. Some even tried to insult me for not having a one night stand with them.

    I can be a bit of a weirdo when it comes to it. If a girl thinks she can snap her fingers and get a guy to bed simply by asking, then I like to be the black sheep that shows that she's not so invincible in that aspect.

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    • shuggy-chan
      10 years ago

      Yeah, I totally did that to yo mama the other day

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        That's ma mamma yoo speakin' 'bout, boya!

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    • Shugaboom
      10 years ago

      I like your style. You do not have to do what most people would do, just to be "normal" or "cool". Keep following your own thoughts and you'll continue living happy, or at least pleased.

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  • BIgEB
    10 years ago

    I have never said yes...if I want to have a girl...I would want something more serious than a one-night stand...

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    • Shugaboom
      10 years ago

      Excellent! It should be more people like you!

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  • linchpin
    10 years ago

    Yes just recently. She annoyed me. If I'd had sex with her I wouldve been objectifying her. So I didn't.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      Doesn't the fact that she wanted a one night stand with you mean, by your own reasoning, that "you" were objectified?

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      • linchpin
        10 years ago

        No she was invested emotionally in it, i wasn't. It was only gonna be a one night stand
        had I gone through with it

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago

          Your question states that "she" offers the one night stance, not sex under the impression it could go further.

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    • noid
      10 years ago

      You're awesome.

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      • Shugaboom
        10 years ago

        awesome indeed

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    • Shugaboom
      10 years ago

      Good for you!

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    • dom180
      10 years ago

      I don't see casual sex as inherently objectifying, even if it's with a person who's personality you don't like. Objectifying someone sexually is seeing them as nothing more than a means to get sex. Objectification is depersonalizing someone, making them an object to be acted upon not as a subject who is capable of their own decisions. Disliking their personality but still having sex with them doesn't mean you make them into an object, so it isn't sexual objectification.

      It's your choice, please don't think I'm blasting you for it. I just don't think it is objectifying inherently, and it's important to make that distinction.

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      • linchpin
        10 years ago

        Well i know the way i felt towards her at that very moment and i could tell you that had i had sex with her, i wouldve been objectifying her. I know what the word means otherwise
        I wouldnt of used it. Casual sex involves having interest, short term in sexual intercourse with someone.

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  • YourMomSaysHello
    10 years ago

    Women rarely approach others, let alone ask them for sex! They have too much of a big ego to do that. God forbid they put themselves in a situation when they don't have the upper hand, not being the ones in control and get rejected. Fuckin` princesses...

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    • Shugaboom
      10 years ago

      There are a lot of types of women (and men too), so do not generalize cause you probably would get surprised!

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  • jeebley
    10 years ago

    Once I saw a fake fruit bowl.

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  • Lonely2
    10 years ago

    IT has happened a few times...but never from someone I really had the hots for....i am 49 male...and need to be in the mood...if someone who i was really hot for asked me on a day i really felt in the mood then its a go .....most girl
    s give me hints but dont come right out and say it

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  • Tommythecat.
    10 years ago

    Yes.

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  • 2tfx
    10 years ago

    never had one!

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    • Shugaboom
      10 years ago

      Like I said before:
      That's why I added the option of "can't answer..."
      Not everybody has had that "experience"
      :P

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  • LornaMae
    10 years ago

    You wouldn't believe how many!

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    • Shugaboom
      10 years ago

      Why!?

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      • LornaMae
        10 years ago

        Well, I don't just fuck anyone who wants to fuck me. Also, I have too many lesbian friends, so I'm subject to receiving offers on occasion. Last and more importantly, I prefer boys :)

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  • andiforoncedonthatehumans
    10 years ago

    If only i had been asked for one lol..

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    • Shugaboom
      10 years ago

      That's why I added the option of "can't answer..."
      Not everybody has had that "experience"

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