You could have at least left him first before going off & betraying the entire reasoning behind relationships. It's easier to get over being dumped than betrayed.
I'm glad you can see my side of the "argument," if you will. I think whether they find out or not, it's still a betrayal of the relationship & I personally would have the most crippling guilty conscience.
It isn't an argument it is just different view points and yes we are all entitltled to them and they're healthy too. If we all agreed on everything it would be a very nice world
but also a very boring world.
Like I said I was in a relationship with no sex what was
I was I to do give up sex? I'm a human being with desires who
wants to feel attractive to the oppersite sex that doesn't
make me abnormal. Sorry but I don't feel guilty at all.
I'll ask you this what would you do if you were with someone and they didn't want to make love with you. xx
I think you're missing my point... Haha. I'm trying to say no, you shouldn't have to give up sex BUT you should have left the original relationship before engaging in another sexual relationship.
What I would do if I was in love but not receiving sex? Well I'd happily stay in the relationship with full dedication to loving the partner. The time for sex would come eventually, & I could happily wait.
Well that's fantastic that you feel that you could
wait for sex and I can only applaud you for that. However we are not built to the same plan (how boring would it be if we were) and rightly or wrongly the closness and pleaure
of sex is far more important to me that dedication in a relationship. I may sound cold hearted but at least I am being honest.
For the record I did not engage in a sexual relationship
it was a one night encounter. x
Have you ever cheated on a significant other? Why?
↑ View this comment's parent
← View full post
You could have at least left him first before going off & betraying the entire reasoning behind relationships. It's easier to get over being dumped than betrayed.
--
Ibelievethis
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
-1
-1
That's fair comment I suppose, but he never found out that I had cheated. x
--
kupokupo
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
1
1
I'm glad you can see my side of the "argument," if you will. I think whether they find out or not, it's still a betrayal of the relationship & I personally would have the most crippling guilty conscience.
--
Ibelievethis
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
-2
-2
It isn't an argument it is just different view points and yes we are all entitltled to them and they're healthy too. If we all agreed on everything it would be a very nice world
but also a very boring world.
Like I said I was in a relationship with no sex what was
I was I to do give up sex? I'm a human being with desires who
wants to feel attractive to the oppersite sex that doesn't
make me abnormal. Sorry but I don't feel guilty at all.
I'll ask you this what would you do if you were with someone and they didn't want to make love with you. xx
--
kupokupo
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
I think you're missing my point... Haha. I'm trying to say no, you shouldn't have to give up sex BUT you should have left the original relationship before engaging in another sexual relationship.
What I would do if I was in love but not receiving sex? Well I'd happily stay in the relationship with full dedication to loving the partner. The time for sex would come eventually, & I could happily wait.
--
Ibelievethis
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
Well that's fantastic that you feel that you could
wait for sex and I can only applaud you for that. However we are not built to the same plan (how boring would it be if we were) and rightly or wrongly the closness and pleaure
of sex is far more important to me that dedication in a relationship. I may sound cold hearted but at least I am being honest.
For the record I did not engage in a sexual relationship
it was a one night encounter. x