I cheated once. I was in an abusive BDSM lifestyle relationship and he was very cold and subtly manipulative... so subtle I let myself believe it was just his mental illness messing with him.
One of my friends at the time was very kind to me, really sweet guy... Things were really bad with my ex at the time and I think I was just desperate for someone to handle me more gently, to remember that sex could be that way... I felt so guilty I stopped him a few minutes into it and stayed with that asshole for another few months before I had enough. -.-
I did hook up a few times in my last relationship, but we had an open arrangement, and I know he hooked up some too. Never managed to find another girl for a three way though. :(
Have you ever cheated on a significant other? Why?
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I cheated once. I was in an abusive BDSM lifestyle relationship and he was very cold and subtly manipulative... so subtle I let myself believe it was just his mental illness messing with him.
One of my friends at the time was very kind to me, really sweet guy... Things were really bad with my ex at the time and I think I was just desperate for someone to handle me more gently, to remember that sex could be that way... I felt so guilty I stopped him a few minutes into it and stayed with that asshole for another few months before I had enough. -.-
I did hook up a few times in my last relationship, but we had an open arrangement, and I know he hooked up some too. Never managed to find another girl for a three way though. :(