YES, Of Course It's NORMAL. You find them attractive... and maybe they find you attractive too.
Honestly, the only way to just come right out and ask one of them, is when you and she have been drinking alcohol (not drunk, but just tipsy), that way it takes some of the awkwardness from an awkward situation; and if there is a "no" answer, you can play it off as a joke (because you've been drinking).
Mentioning it in a conversation, however, at the risk of an awkward moment, you may want to use humor to ease the subject into conversations. Maybe you should hint around at the idea by giving them compliments about their attractiveness, how you admire her, etc. It may take several conversations for you to have a serious talk about making your fantasy become reality (or it may take only one mention and you get the green light).
Practice what you want to say to them (one of them) before you tell her. They (or at least one of them) may feel the same way about you, but just hasn't had the courage to mention it. It may be difficult to work into a conversation, but once you get it out in the open, it gets much easier to deal with.
Spend alone time (one-on-one time) - sitting it a room talking, or watching a movie; a walk outside together, holding hands; going to eat at a restaurant and shopping; etc.
Since I'm sure you already masturbate to thoughts of them, then start masturbating where and when they/ she can "accidentally" catch a glimpse of you pleasuring yourself while saying their/ her name(s).
I know I keep saying "them" and "they", but that's because you have fantasies about more than one person. IF you like one girl more than the others, then focus on making your move on her, while continuing to flirt with the others. Maybe after one of them gives in to your seduction, it will be easier to have a method for the others.
Perhaps you can offer her a massage. Massages are very sensual, and can be very sexually stimulating. If she takes your offer for a massage, then light a couple of scented candles, use massaging oil, and both of you wear as little clothing as possible. Maybe then you can see if it's a possibility.
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YES, Of Course It's NORMAL. You find them attractive... and maybe they find you attractive too.
Honestly, the only way to just come right out and ask one of them, is when you and she have been drinking alcohol (not drunk, but just tipsy), that way it takes some of the awkwardness from an awkward situation; and if there is a "no" answer, you can play it off as a joke (because you've been drinking).
Mentioning it in a conversation, however, at the risk of an awkward moment, you may want to use humor to ease the subject into conversations. Maybe you should hint around at the idea by giving them compliments about their attractiveness, how you admire her, etc. It may take several conversations for you to have a serious talk about making your fantasy become reality (or it may take only one mention and you get the green light).
Practice what you want to say to them (one of them) before you tell her. They (or at least one of them) may feel the same way about you, but just hasn't had the courage to mention it. It may be difficult to work into a conversation, but once you get it out in the open, it gets much easier to deal with.
Spend alone time (one-on-one time) - sitting it a room talking, or watching a movie; a walk outside together, holding hands; going to eat at a restaurant and shopping; etc.
Since I'm sure you already masturbate to thoughts of them, then start masturbating where and when they/ she can "accidentally" catch a glimpse of you pleasuring yourself while saying their/ her name(s).
I know I keep saying "them" and "they", but that's because you have fantasies about more than one person. IF you like one girl more than the others, then focus on making your move on her, while continuing to flirt with the others. Maybe after one of them gives in to your seduction, it will be easier to have a method for the others.
Perhaps you can offer her a massage. Massages are very sensual, and can be very sexually stimulating. If she takes your offer for a massage, then light a couple of scented candles, use massaging oil, and both of you wear as little clothing as possible. Maybe then you can see if it's a possibility.
Go for It! and I wish you all the luck!
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Omg!
That is awesome tip(s)
You are really one of the good advisor.
I really appreciate that. Thank you so much
All the tricks and manipulation. that u r mentioning
Just proving that "it's not normal"