Haunting past

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It's been over a year since I split up with my ex, only just like last year he shows up at my door, I know I shouldn't let him in my life cause we always end up doing stuff even though it's never going to work.
One reason being we have been in a on/off relationship for years and another reason being the now 400 miles apart.
It's normal right to keep going back to your ex? But how do you say no when it feels soooo hard to?

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  • [Old Memory]
    15 years ago

    Grow a pair and just say "no" and get over the pain. Find a black guy to take that pain away.

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  • [Old Memory]
    15 years ago

    An ex is an ex you will never move on if you dont say no not normal

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  • Tarklovishki
    11 years ago

    You know most people just take a breath and say 'no'. It's a one-syllable word and very easy to say.

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  • YOURaFREAK
    14 years ago

    You could always just get a blow up doll!! i heard that they are way nicer!!!=)

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  • gawkyporcupine
    14 years ago

    just move and change your phone numbers
    that should fix the problem
    just remember not to pass the information to the ex
    you will soon get over the bum

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  • AmINormal789
    14 years ago

    You love eachother, but its time to move on if you wont work. I know its hard, and it feels impossible, but you need to try your hardest.

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  • nothing2
    14 years ago

    its more like you never broke up with the dude to be more specific you know than going back to him

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  • MzBeck123
    14 years ago

    So you want to know if this is normal? Yes and no. Yes it's normal for someone to want to keep a part of something from the past if you think you love them.....but no because what you don't realize, or at least I assume you don't, is that your "Partner" is just about sleeping with you. They find you to be someone they can run to whenever they feel the need to, or when they don't have anyone else to sleep around with. My suggestion to you is that you finally put your foot down and tell him goodbye........it's best you take time to find yourself and let love find you. And get rid of the creep......he isn't worth it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Go and get a life for yourself - you can't say no because you are so needy.

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  • combatgal856
    15 years ago

    Its difficult, but the only way to do it is by not seeing him. Don't answer he's calls or tell him that you don't want to be doing stuff with him and you don't want to see him. If he cared he wont see you, if not then ignor him

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  • tornwithin
    15 years ago

    get awayyy.. i was in a on off relationship for 2 years and in the end i got pregnant when i finally realized i hated him and then he took off :) yay for me..

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  • Team_Cullen
    15 years ago

    Grow up?

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  • [Old Memory]
    15 years ago

    If slackass had this wonderful life he claims then he wouldnt be on here with the rest of us.

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  • [Old Memory]
    15 years ago

    Go fuk yourself how many accounts you got now cunt

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  • Glen_Quagmire
    15 years ago

    youre asking a relationship question in a place where 99%% of the posters have had no relationship except with their hand.

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    • AkatsukinoOokami
      9 years ago

      Heyyyyyy!!!!!!

      where getting married in a month ;)

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    • [Old Memory]
      15 years ago

      oh and i thought that glen quagmire died of liver cancer?

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      • [Old Memory]
        15 years ago

        LOL! It wasn't liver cancer it was a brain tumor, but he survived, and now he is back in here posting only under 2 of his 12 usernames because he can't remember the others but that shouldn't be a problem Im sure he will have several new ones before long.

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    • [Old Memory]
      15 years ago

      slackjaw you are a complete pussy.

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    • [Old Memory]
      15 years ago

      Slackass why is it, you insist on calling everybody habitual handwankers all the time? The only thing that I can possibly think of that would cause this is if you are one yourself.

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    • [Old Memory]
      15 years ago

      you sound like slackeyedyokel whoever you are speak for yourself

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      • Doctor_Tongue
        15 years ago

        piss off you aussie pedophile.....i dont need a fairy like you to tell me how to post.....

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        • [Old Memory]
          15 years ago

          You need to just sever the ties with him completely and find another man that you have a lot in common with. This thing with your "ex" is never going to work so quit making yourself miserable by sleeping with him every time he comes around. Next time he contacts you tell him you have a boyfriend and would appreciate it if he did not contact you again.

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          • [Old Memory]
            15 years ago

            Sorry my comment was directed at the poster.

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        • [Old Memory]
          15 years ago

          Slackarseyokel is back were all awake upto you cockwatcher

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        • [Old Memory]
          15 years ago

          Only fags hide behind other names like you poofter

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  • IkeBroflovski
    15 years ago

    "I just know a lot of white girls prefer dark meat. I suspect you of this."

    WTF??? Quantify "a lot" please. Im not saying you're wrong btw. But my point is that a lot is still a very small minority. A very, very small minority.

    Valid post to violent10dency though. Just for ahem, record keeping purposes, do you prefer dark meat?

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    • [Old Memory]
      15 years ago

      Not really, the tide has been turning. In our life time we will see more mixed black and white couples to the degree where id say every other white girl will have dated and slept with atleast one black man before they are married.

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      • IkeBroflovski
        15 years ago

        Maybe. But it will never be that bad... For the simple fact that in most countries where there are white and black ppl, the numbers arent nearly the same for each ethnic group. What I'm basically saying is that there arent enough black men in the USA for each white girl to get her freak on...

        Just because it's become more acceptable (only in certain places BTW. Go try that interracial shit in large parts of the south and see how you get on) and it's more prevalent in the media, doesn't mean its increasing in leaps and bounds.

        It will become more common I agree but never to the degree that you described above. And if that day should come, you and I will be long gone my friend...

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  • [Old Memory]
    15 years ago

    Here's an idea....Try finding somebody else, so he can't hurt you anymore.

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    • [Old Memory]
      15 years ago

      A black guy right?

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      • [Old Memory]
        15 years ago

        I'm just suggesting another guy for her, what difference does it make what color they are?

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        • [Old Memory]
          15 years ago

          I just know a lot of white girls prefer dark meat. I suspect you of this.

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          • NirNova04
            14 years ago

            lmao! u crazy

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          • [Old Memory]
            15 years ago

            Uhhhhhh a lot of white guys say that online about me. I am not going to say sometimes I don't find black men attractive, but I prefer white men. I don't date anyway, I haven't been with a man in 3 years, and I've only been with one guy. If it really bothers you to see interracial couples, or bi-racial people (which I have a feeling that it might even though you probably won't admit that it does) you might as well get over it cuz it ain't going away anytime soon, no offence man.

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            • [Old Memory]
              15 years ago

              Ive learn to embrace that most white girls prefer jobless black guys over hard working white ones. Maybe its the helplessness that attracts them to them like him having to drive you car because he does not have one or him living with you and you being the only one working. Such a dream!

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  • stacieblows
    15 years ago

    just be fuck buddies, you'll get the feeling of some sort of commitment from him and he will get some pussy from you

    either way its a WIN-WIN!

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