If you can pay her back within a short term, you can also earn the money for the car in that short term.
Just work for it and buy that car yourself.
It's your responsibility.
And helping someone doesn't mean that person HAS to do something back.
For a 22 year old, you aren't the most mature person (as I've also read as an earlier comment)
I wasn't being real specific in my post, and that's my fault, so I'll go into more detail right now.
I asked my mom to lend me money previously and at that time she agreed to it. Her exact words we're, " I'll lend you the money. Just give me a few weeks and I'll help you get your car ". I waited a few weeks, and still no word yet, so I decided to confront her and ask her. Then she said (As seen above in my description), " Oh! I don't have anymore money, just a few hundred dollars left! ", and that was the end of it.
I'd agree with you about me being immature if I just asked her for money and she said " no " the first time, but she gave me her word and didn't follow through with it. Not only that, for some reason she felt the need to lie too.
I don't think any other person would react and take this anymore differently then I have. It's dishonest and misleading, and I don't think it's wrong of me to have resentment towards my mom for that.
Hating your mom for not helping you buy a car, but you help her?
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If you can pay her back within a short term, you can also earn the money for the car in that short term.
Just work for it and buy that car yourself.
It's your responsibility.
And helping someone doesn't mean that person HAS to do something back.
For a 22 year old, you aren't the most mature person (as I've also read as an earlier comment)
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I wasn't being real specific in my post, and that's my fault, so I'll go into more detail right now.
I asked my mom to lend me money previously and at that time she agreed to it. Her exact words we're, " I'll lend you the money. Just give me a few weeks and I'll help you get your car ". I waited a few weeks, and still no word yet, so I decided to confront her and ask her. Then she said (As seen above in my description), " Oh! I don't have anymore money, just a few hundred dollars left! ", and that was the end of it.
I'd agree with you about me being immature if I just asked her for money and she said " no " the first time, but she gave me her word and didn't follow through with it. Not only that, for some reason she felt the need to lie too.
I don't think any other person would react and take this anymore differently then I have. It's dishonest and misleading, and I don't think it's wrong of me to have resentment towards my mom for that.