Hating but loving and confused

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There's this boy I dumped because I hate him because he is such a d*ck, but deep down I have strong feelings for him still. I don't want to go out with him but I want him to know that I like him so he could at least make an effort or something-but I'm almost frightened to talk to him because I practically melt when I talk to him.

Has this ever happened to anyone and WHAT SHOULD I DO

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  • elvalil
    13 years ago

    Oh yeah. Me and my ex used to fight all the time, and after every fight, our feelings seem to grow so much stronger. It's a love-hate thing, totally normal. We had been on and off for more than 20 times. We loved each other so much, it was uncontrollable. It was also a happy break-up, we are really close friends right now. Trust me, it's normal:) Unless it gets physical...

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  • toddinator716
    14 years ago

    All women like assholes, it's in their nature. Normal? yes.... Something you should be embarassed of? yes

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  • Pinkpop
    14 years ago

    i don't want to sound mean or anything but... that's BS. i'm always hearing that crap. my b/f is mean i dumped him but i still love him crap. stop feeling like you deserve trash. as for you flikr not all women like the asshole type. true women look for in a man is stability, love, and respect, and their status in society. A woman looks for closeness in a man, that will support her decisions. women most likely love the dinner outside under a romantic moon, and a nice walk along the river, or beach. even a lake, whatever. it's peaceful. on a very first date you should never take her to a place she hates. and when a woman should trust a guy is when he's the best friend. not befor.

    now back to the question.

    you forget him ok? there are true Romeo's out there. i'm still seeking my Juliette. i believe in true love, and love at first sight.
    i understand what you hold on to is hope, and that's good. but for yourself you got to know when to say goodbye.

    its good that you dumped him. that's progress. now you just got to keep walking. and you'll move along nicely :).

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  • DarkHeirophant
    15 years ago

    girls are attracted to a**hole type guys, i always try to act like an a**hole around girls i like, it's not in my nature but i realize that is what they want

    even so i don't do so well when two girls are together, one of the girls always influences the other girl to hate me, only solution is to kill one of em

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  • confusedjagex115
    15 years ago

    dont wurry its happen to me.i had a girl friend but i dumbed her cz she was a d*ck also.heres a freindly helpful tip.if you ever get the feeling againe think of something different and if you cant stop ask an adult or some one for help.

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  • junohandy
    16 years ago

    This guy sounds really immature and a waste of time. If you let him know that you still have feelings for him then that will only give him allowance to continue treating you like dirt. He might promise to change, but his bad side will probably resurface after awhile. Move on.

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  • [Old Memory]
    16 years ago

    girls are attracted to asshole type guys, i always try to act like an asshole around girls i like, it's not in my nature but i realize that is what they want

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